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I know the general consensus on using love spells is a resounding NO, but have some compassion please as I'm hurting, sad and need guidance.

Had a relationship that last 1-1.5 years. Because I tend to sabotage, I did numerous things to push him away. The last few months he was distant and detached. So I decided to break up if he could not give me what I needed. He acted completely aloof and indifferent whenI did break up and he told me he was "not in love with me". I casted a love spell (http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/love_spells/obsession_spells/13970/page.html) on September 9th, full moon. I also paid someone to do a spell for me, and she had me do a ritual at home to give the spell extra strength. It's about 30 days, and nothing. Nada. Zip. No response from him AT ALL. This sucks. So, any tips or recommendations? I'm thinking of doing the love jar spell since the full moon is coming real soon. Thank you in advance.