The past 2 1/2 months have been extremely difficult for me. Just a mere breakup has turned my world upside down.
The 2nd month hit me with such a depression I had never felt before.
I now realize that this is truly my first long-term relationship that was ended. Something I thought was just always going to be there suddenly was taken away.
I've tried researching spells, and I even bought one on eBay. I came on here seeking spells and spent more time than I should have looking for a "time" or "love" spell to change things.
I've had Tarot readings, and I recently started seeing a therapist (although the therapist has turned out to be pretty helpful).
I've also been studying this idea behind the Law of Attraction the past few days.
Then earlier this afternoon, it suddenly dawned on me. I'm only depressed and in this mindset because I'm allowing it to be. My mind has been fueling these negative, depressing, jealous, frustrated thoughts. I realized that I couldn't generate any positive thinking or "attract" positiveness into my life with this mindset. And all I had to do was re-calibrate my thinking to that of being happy and confident.
And almost instantly, I started feeling better. I could think of those "jealous" images and they wouldn't bother me. I still struggle a bit of images of us being together, and how I wish I could change that. But I understand that this will take time.
The Law of Attraction merely states to "Ask, Visualize, Believe, and Release into the Universe."
All of this time I was looking for a "quick" way to get my ex back. I realized this was wrong. I must become a person that'll attract her back. That'll attract other women and friends like her.
I now believe that I will lead a successful life. I will lead a life that will attract people. And I also believe that deep down in my heart, we'll be reunited. I don't know how long, but I believe that in my positive state, she'll eventually come back. And this time, it'll be her trying to convince me.
I will continue to tell and remind myself of this "new" lifestyle I want to have. And through that, I believe the Universe will manifest it.
For all of those who are suffering a heartbreak or looking for a "spell" to bring or trick someone back. It will not work. It is not the way.
Change yourself. To change yourself, it requires your mental state, the right energy. You don't "need" someone to do that for you. Only YOU can do that.
And only then, may you hope to bring back your ex or get over him/her. Just Believe.
This I believe, is the true mindset and purpose of "magic."