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Greetings.

I am having relationship issues. My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. Everything has been good. He's an outstanding partner, but two weeks ago, we had a major fight where he said it was over. However, a few days later he came back, communicating more and wanting to fix things. It was an anxious period for me, even if we were slowly repairing our relationship and getting back together.

We actually got back together on Saturday (April 4), but I lost control and yesterday, I said some not nice things.

He now thinks I'm unhappy; and if one of us is unhappy, then we both are. But I professed that I'm not unhappy; it's other stresses in life right now that have gotten to me. In fact, he's been amazing. I realize my faults and know I can be better and treat him better. I just need him to let me.

Uncharacteristically, he hasn't responded to any of my attempts at communication. I'm afraid this may be it. He has never kept such silence and distance--and it's been excruciating.

If he was willing to make the effort to fix things not too long ago, then I hope he will be willing to again, but just needs time and space.

I love him, and I don't want to lose him. He has indeed made me happy, and I want to give him all the happiness and support he needs in return. I see great possibilities for us. I just need him to let me in again.

Nonetheless, how do I soften his heart to give me another chance? What can I do to keep him?

I need something that will strengthen our bond.

Please help. I want/need something that will work instantly.

Thank you very much in advance.