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Where I live it it rare in some parts around me to see Cardinal's but not entirely rare. I have lived in the same area for 19 year's and have only ever seen a Cardinal twice. The first time was last year, during Janurary, while i was walking home from seeing my new boyfriend. It flew right in front of me and sat on a tree to my left and just stared at me. The second time was ealier today when i was with the same guy who is my ex and we are just friends. I have looked into the symbology of what a Cardinal is and i completely understand it. However, I saw a medium who said to me a few month's back after the break up that he isn't the one for me , and that i should cut him out of my life entirely because he is bad for me. Yet, today i saw the bird of love. I believe that we get to choose our own course in life, take our own path, while some Huge thing's may be planned, and no matter what road we take it leads back to it... But this i don't get. Like I said i have only seen this bird twice and that was when i was with him and only him. Does that mean that her reading was wrong? Does it mean nothing?
I have tried asking a higher power ( since I am still finding my path & diety ), and looking in-ward of myself and i come up blank. I don't find an answer...

-Druantia