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What you need:
One week prior to ovulation, the mom-to-be should increase her consumption of citus/acidic foods such as tomatoes, oranges, lemons, etc; nuts and leafy greens like kale or spinach. Avoid greasy or oily meats (sausages, pepperoni, pork). Do not eat anything you are allergic too, though.
The ceremony
The day before your most fertile day, the actual day, and the day after place the 3 new candles of equal size near the bed. As the dad-to-be lights the blue candle, he ought to repeat the following:
"Divine Father, We call thee El, Priapus, Ing, Min and Cernunnos You whose sheltering arms shield and comfort your young, whose power is seen in the mighty river, the nourishing Sun Bless this union of man and mate".
As the mom-to-be lights the pink candle, she ought to repeat the following:
"Divine Mother, We call thee Inanna, Asherah, Freya, Vesta and Hathor You who bears, nurtures and defends your young against all dangers Whose power is seen in the fertile fields, the moonlit breezes Bless this union of woman and mate together".
You both should now light the third candle and repeat the following:
"Lord and Lady, Mother and Father, life divine. As two are made one, we seek your sacred blessing. Gift us with a healthy child, One who embodies the best of us both."
Imagine a warm light filling the room you both are in, the ceremony is now done and you should try to conceive after it. Let the candles burn until they go out on their own. Repeat with new candles for each of the remaining nights.