I'm looking for a spell to help increase my personal charm or magnetism to draw people attention towards me in a positive way. Sort of like how in hoodoo they use follow me boy oil. Ive researched spells on here but not seeing anything i would trust to work. Help?
Re: Magnetism and Popularity Spells? By: Brysing Moderator / Adept
Post # 2 Sep 27, 2014
If you like people, they will like you! Don't think of attracting people to yourself; think of being attractive to others.Be pleasant to everyone, whatever their status;beggar, thief, or King! Don't tell your story! Listen to theirs!
Re: Magnetism and Popularity Spells? By: Brysing Moderator / Adept
Post # 4 Sep 27, 2014
But you must not be negative in your approach to other people. You must "put yourself forward". Don't expect them to ask how you are!
Ask them how they are! "Hello! What's your name? I'm (your name)".
If you have already heard the other person's name, greet them by name. People love to hear their own name.
And smile! Always, smile!
It is quite possible that people ignore you because you never say anything; perhaps too shy.
I am curious... Lili is asking for a spell... How come no one can recommend a good magnetic spell? I know there are several out there.... I am just surprised how often questions are asked about spell and the replies comes from all other sources... if this was a Dr Phills forum type, then I would expect that type of responses... magical forums should have magick in it!
Re: Magnetism and Popularity Spells? By: Brysing Moderator / Adept
Post # 6 Sep 28, 2014
A spell is not the answer to everything! Magic is not the answer to everything! This girl doesn't need a spell; she needs self-confidence. Now, a spell may act to give the girl more confidence; but that is not what she asked. She asked how to make herself more attractive to others; and I was trying to help with that, very human and very common, problem.
You are missing my point though... The more topics I read which people are asking for Magick help or spells, most replies are none magical in nature. It is like getting a book in Math, gert to the chapter about algebra and instead of algebra I find instead American Civil War information... I Know I am exaggerating to make a point... The WEB is like the libraries in the world, and websites are the books... I figured that if we are opening a Magical book we would find that topic there.
secondly, we all already do magick in one way or another... wishing is a a great way to tune up to Magick, many people would tell you that setting goals have a Magical thing built to it... closing your eyes and imagining in detail a desired outcome is basic Magick... looking yourself on a mirror and telling yourself you are amazing while holding your index finger and thumb... then when you are feeling a bit anxious simply hold your index finger and thumb and you have yourself an instant Magick happening (a quick way to remind your brain that you are amazing)... then the magick works all on itself, you now remember you are amazing and that energy from you radiates with so much strength that people have no choice but to noticed you... Hmmm, now that is powerful Magick :)
Try for yourself, this last magical piece I just mention actually works amazingly... I think this is the type of material we should try to bring into here...