So, a while back I bought the "Find Your Place" spell kit from the store on this site (http://www.spellsofmagic.com/shop_details.html?c=R&s=Spell+Kits&id=78180), and I haven't cast it yet. I've never cast a successful spell, and I don't want to waste my money. I also bought Dragon's Blood Ink, Parchment, and Gold and Silver Fairy Glitter.
Other than "just follow the directions," is there any advice anyone has on successful spell casting? Should my area be nice and clean (I'm a disorganized person)? I live on the bottom floor of an apartment next to the street, so traffic is really loud sometimes. Would it be okay to play nature sounds, or some kind of music, and are there any suggestions? The other items I purchased--do you think they'll help? I'm planning to cast on Halloween. That's a good idea, right?
I have LOTS of questions, and any help (here or through mail if you like) would be greatly appreciated! Also, advice on quelling my issues with doubting myself would be helpful. I know having doubts is definitely not helping me at all.
Learn the basics first. Just because you bought a "Spell kit" doesn't mean it will work if you don't understand magick itself first. If you just start casting spells, they could have serious consequences. You cannot just chant something and hope something will happen. No it does not work like that. I wouldn't say you wasted your money because you can use that kit later in the future when you have learned the basics. This takes time and patience. Many many years. The people who say that it takes many years, are very wise. Those that say it takes days, are not very wise.
Uh, well I'm not a little kid. I've studied paganism since I was a teen, and I'm well into adulthood now. I do know the basics! I'm only inexperienced at casting. You see, I couldn't do as I wanted because I lived with my parents for a long time, plus I didn't have the funds to buy supplies. But that doesn't mean I never studied.
If you've studied then you would know "paganism" is not a religion. It is ever religion that does not follow Christian beliefs. I'm glad you know the basics. Then you would also know that there is no perfect way to cast a spell. The magick comes from within you. If you doubt yourself, that will automatically nullify your attempts. You must have a clear mind and believe. Magick is a "do what you feel is best" sort of thing. There is no set rules, unless you are in a coven.
Your altar area should be clean as it is a sacred area to you.
All in all, the best advice is to meditate, meditate, meditate. That is one of the basics. If you meditate, you will be able to block out all the sounds around, but for now try some headphones or go into a bathroom. I live on the first floor of an apartment and out my window is the street. It doesn't stop me because I have the will to learn and you need that too. Do not doubt yourself, just take a deep cleansing breath and have confidence in yourself.
I didn't say paganism is a religion, or mention christianity... I don't know how you arrived here. I feel like you're making a lot of assumptions about me. I do meditate, and I have strong beliefs. Being inexperienced with something would make anyone hesitate and doubt their abilities, no matter how much you've read up on it. The best doctors in the world had to study for many years before practicing, and even after all their studying, they still get nervous over their work and doubt themselves. I was only seeking advice from actual people, instead of completely relying on books. I'm certain seeking advice from others is a smart thing to do, don't you?
I not assuming and you didn't say other wise. I am only going off of what you have been telling me. Yes of course, that is what this site is here for, asking advice.
It's nice you learned the basic's, but you don't exactly know what your doing ; you said so yourself.
Just because you bought an item, does not mean it will work. Yes Petrarca does supply pproper funds, and so fourth, but it won't be a garaunteed work, unless you know what your doing.
For your altar, keep it clean. It's a tribute to yourself, the gods, and your religion. It will show respect to your gods, ect, ect, So have respect...and show it!
*Also this may be a weird tip, but take a bath, or shower before..if your doing this in ritual. Then dress in a roba, or say clothing only used for magic. Then do the setting up, play some music, and try meditating.
My favorite music is : Daughter of the element, Morghan, Goddess chant, The element chant(the earth, return return) and a couple more!
Good Luck, Mail me for tips.~Izzy
My advise would be to have fun and just believe. Know its going to work. Dont pay much attention to details. Noone is perfect. Study the spell in advance and you wont need to refer to paper. This should give you confidence. Mail me if have any more questions :-)
