Could Use Some Guidance

First, I've come across this forum out of tons of research I've been doing.

I've read a lot of sites with "spells" out there, and 95% of them seem to be just scams and false promises.

I'm looking for something that'll help me with my ex. Yes, I've become pretty desperate.

I'm having so much trouble focusing on work or "faking" like I'm ok with things.

It wasn't a bad break up, but the reasons for the break were on me. I started the break up a little over a year ago because she was a VERY different person. (We dated for 3 years). She CHANGED so much during that time, that towards the end when I wanted her because she became so amazing, she had grown tired of some of the repetition in the relationship.

I'm so upset with myself, and it hurts. She loved me SO much at one point, and I took it for granted.

I'm in the EXACT spot I "thought" I wanted to be a year to this day. A "peaceful, clean" break up with my girlfriend. And I'm so miserable now (she broke up with me a little over 2 months ago).

We're not on terrible terms. If I text (asking for something) or call her, she'll probably call me back. But the conversation is very one-sided, with very little interest from her. She'll "agree" to meet up to catch up, but I have to initiate and plan a lot, and she'll only do it if it's really convenient.

What am I looking for?
A second chance. I KNOW the mistakes I've done. In fact, this is the SECOND time I've thrown away something good (I had a relationship with someone else awesome 6-7 years ago that I also messed up).

I hate that we changed and worked through SO many obstacles together, but I don't get to be part of the future with it.

Is there a spell that can help turn things in my favor? Can a spell caster help? Or is this something I'll have to cast on my own?

Is this messing with "free will"? Can I at least ask for a "chance" to win her heart back (so maybe she's more "open" and "receptive" or "interested" in talking to me)?

I saw a Professional Astrologer and Tarot Reader today, and he told me a lot of about my chart, life, career, and a little bit about our relationship. But he wasn't able to tell "too much" about it besides "work on me." I know it's the cliche thing to do. I "know" I'm supposed to work on myself. But saying it and doing it is so hard when I'm suddenly spending SO much time alone. And when I'm with friends, it still doesn't help because it's on my mind so much.

Sorry for the long, first time post, but in a way, it felt relieving to type that.

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I would say don't use magick. Using magick on her is interrupting her free will, as most commonly believe.

Instead, tell her how you really feel like how you just stated it all here. Communication is your best tool here, not witchcraft or magick.

I would highly recommend a mundane action first before magic.

I mean...go to her, if you can, talk face to face, and make the first thing said that: You want a second chance, that you've taken a year to think about it...and that you know that you messed up, threw away something good, hate that you both worked through SO many obstacles together but that you don't get to be part of the future with it. And then ask her how you can win her heart back.

In my opinion, that raw honesty is hella romantic. It's no guarantee that she'll give it another go, mind you, but it's powerful to lay it out there and you shouldn't regret it if she doesn't respond with willingness to give it another go (although hopefully she'll explain why not in a way that would give you closure...if the answer is no; which, of course, it might not be.) At least you got it out there--not only to us strangers on the internet, but got it out there to the one and only person who can help you change this situation.

Thanks for the responses.

I actually paid for a caster on eBay to cast a spell to "open her mind" up to communicating with me and giving me a "chance" to win her heart back. Pretty sure I got scammed (but I asked for such a "wish/washy" type thing).

I have an obstacle in simply getting her to meet up or talk to me (because she seems uninterested).

I'm not sure "meeting up" to "profess" my love will do anything but make me seem desperate as she already has her shield up.

I was hoping "magick" would help lower those shields and have her open up a bit. I'm not looking to change free will, but I do want a chance.

Thanks again for any feedback and support, there are some really nice people in this forum.

I'm not sure "meeting up" to "profess" my love will do anything but make me seem desperate as she already has her shield up.

As long as you own your desperation, it shouldn't be that bad. She can have enough shields for the both of you. I mean, if you've both got shields up, she with whatever and you with wanting to play it cool...then that's not much of a relationship.

The thing is, I believe that everybody is psychically sensitive because everybody has some psychic dimension in their lives. That's why magic can work on people who aren't magicians, because, on some subtle level, everybody is magic.

That means that if you cast a spell, or ask somebody to cast a spell, to break down this woman's emotional shields...some part of her is going to know it and not appreciate it.

I would recommend a few things: (I've been in this situation too, it sucks)

1: I happen to know a great spell caster for these situations, i can mail it to you.

2: I think you need to ask her out again, and put more excitement into the relationship. If you interfered with free will, a spell can backfire, and well your life would become miserable. I don't know how, because everything is different.

3: Seek help online as to "How to make a girl like you" blah blah blah.

There are many approaches, but you can choose whichever one. Mail me if you want the spell casters email.

Well you want her ro have free will. Ans its better foe someone to love you unconditionally not FORCE. And remember this is a Big World you just may find someone that truly share common interests with you. It seems like you challenge her alot ans you made this mistake with someone eles. So with that being said we have ro ask questions to ourselves first. What type of person we see ourselves being? Andtry seeing what she see aabout dating. Also maybe she looking for something eles. Maybe she doesn't want a relationship. I hope you find someone that can guinuely be with you out wishcraft take to you.

Well you want her ro have free will. Ans its better foe someone to love you unconditionally not FORCE. And remember this is a Big World you just may find someone that truly share common interests with you. It seems like you challenge her alot ans you made this mistake with someone eles. So with that being said we have ro ask questions to ourselves first. What type of person we see ourselves being? Andtry seeing what she see aabout dating. Also maybe she looking for something eles. Maybe she doesn't want a relationship. I hope you find someone that can guinuely be with you out wishcraft take to you.