So, I have a freind who claimed to have a boy follow her all her life. I've had nightmares (things really happened physically though) since I was about four or five. Am I like cursed or do I have something following me? Ive dealt with it so long I know when im dreaming or when a nightmare is occurring and can usually stop it but I wont lie, sometimes Im scared out of my wits. Like an intense spirit of fear...eeeek.. Anyone else deal with this?
IM 26 now and still have them. Sometimes I know whats about to happen because ive had the dream multiple times in the 20 and some odd years ive dealt with this. Yours ever go away?
Yes mine did go away but after a year. Other people have night terrors for longer though sometimes. It's different with every person. Maybe talk to your doctor about it? It might be a chemical thing since you haven't said it was a traumatic event or anything.
Ive been to a pyschotherapists actually. She had no comment of the dreams and spirits, but she said it can take years to control them the way I can now. She called it lucid dreaming. Like when im having a night terror i know to let the people kill me to wake up. If im being held down I can rebuke the spirit, sometimes I get pushed though. And depending on the dream/terror or whatever is happening physcially I can usually wake up or make the spirit leave. Still scary. Sometimes the fear just stays and scares the crud out of me.
In that case I would recomend making a "night terror kit." Put together a bag filled with things that you can do until you become calm again. Maybe some snacks and a bottle of water, just for a few minutes so you can get back to normal and mayb fall asleep again.
I dont think something is following you, but what are the physical things that have happened? Your nightmares could be someone trying to get through to you, or your simply just scared. If you have anxiety or stress that can also effect your dreams, even eating chocolate or cheese is said to give you nightmares. If there's things happening in your home, things been thrown, moved, people being pushed, flickering lights etc a spirit could be in your home, and its energy might be affecting your dreams. There's a number of possibilities why you have nightmares.
Ive been shoved off a bed, scratched on my arm, pulled under the bed, , door slammed in my face, my back pack was on the ceiling (this was one of my first encounters)
fan somehow it was holding on to the fan and went faster and faster and flew off on my chest while i was sleeping, I woke up and the backpack was on my chest and it hit so hard it took my breath away.