Okay so basically today, I got extremely frustrated at my best friend (whom I'm in love with) and cast a love spell on him to love me back. Now I'm petrified it's going to backfire and I end up losing him for good which is not what I want at all. Are there ways to reverse spells? It's one I wrote and conducted myself.
I'm afraid once you put your will out there, it's off into the world. My advice would be to approach him, tell him how you feel, and try to put yourself through the paces of trying to build a relationship. That way, you'll be actively working toward the spell's goal, and there won't be anything TO backfire, if that makes sense. In any case, the spell is done. Can't put the bullet back in the gun, you know?
I suppose you could. There's a spell I use to break curses that might work. Write your name, his name, and "love spell" on a leaf and bury it in the ground. As you bury it, ask the earth to weather the spell and dull its effects as the leaf breaks down, and when it disappears, the spell will be broken.
First off love spells don't work that way, you cant force someone into love, if you are looking for love and do a love spell, love will find you. But you cant mess with his free will.
I never understood why any one would want to do a love spell, id rather like knowing they care for me and it was their choice.
If you want to take it back, wright a letter of your intention, say a prayer to your Goddess, ask for her help in the matter, burn the letter, letting go of the notion of trying to make him love you, then step on the ashes until they are in the ground, finish by saying so I will it so it shall be, then forget it, don't think about it again.
I agree with Zazabeth. If you could do that doing a love spell on him would just mean he would love you because you forced him into it, it isn't true love it should be that you invited love to come into your life not forcefully. I would not suggest doing any spell at all, if you are frustrated with him take time to calm down, then explain why you got mad at him in the first place and make up with him.
And you probably won't need a reverse spell spells do not work the way you explained I understand you made this spell yourself and spells work better if you do, but not like this. I hope you and him get better.