Background info: I'm a 19 y/o disabled, autistic, trans man living with my abusive father. I am completely financially dependent on him, and my mom (divorced from him when I was 2) isn't in a position where she can support me financially, or offer me a place to live, so simply "getting out of there" isn't an option. Additionally, since I'm no longer a minor and the abuse isn't physical (and would be extremely difficult to prove for a multitude of reasons), I'm pretty sure there's no feasible course of legal action I could take. I'm working on applying to live at a sort of transitional assisted living center for developmentally disabled young adults, but that's going to take some time.
In the meantime, I desperately need some kind of spell to make him calm tf down, or at least leave me alone/stop taking his own personal stuff out on me. I know that no amount of magic can fix this situation on its own, but it would at least make me feel less helpless. Thank you so much in advance to anyone who offers any help.
Honestly I don’t know what else to say, but leave that place but you already said thats not an option. You could see if there are any LGBT shelters around your area (there are some where I’m from so please take a look at that) and remember that it always gets better.
I would recommend trying to talk to him about how you're feeling with the whole situation and the way he acts towards you. If you feel a bit scared to do that try working on some bravery/protection spells on yourself before you talk to him. If he still won't be open and listen to you then I'd distance yourself from him and try doing random small acts of kindness for him without being told to. Like making breakfast, washing dishes, and going out and doing some errands for him. This way when he notices and appreciates it he'll hopefully go a bit easier on you. I really do hope things get better for you. Just know that this isn't permanent and it will pass, it might feel like hell right now but it'll get better in the future and you'll just have to keep pushing through this. Sending love and hope your way, I'm rooting for you :)
You Can always reach out to your local authorities, if that doesn't work you can call a domestic violence hotline and explain to them what is happening no person should half to be injured or tormented for there sexual orientation.
