Undo a you-can't-succeed curse? Um work hard for whatever you want to succeed in? because hard work always have to play off, so acurse? doesn't seem like a problem to me.
If it's an actual curse then you simple need to reroute the energy used to apply the curse.
Grab a piece of paper.
Grab a pen.
Meditate on the curse while holding the pen.
Draw out the curse onto the paper by letting your hand move will transitioning all energies onto the paper from the curse.
Fold the paper up.
Meditate with the paper and try to change the energy as best you can. For example, apply loving energy, etc.
Burn the paper safely.
If you truly believe that his intent was to cause you ill will then I would suggest constructing a witch's jar. Emphasis on the mirror and reflecting negativity away from you. I also agree with the other posters and would suggest that you NOT let this (or any other) person's words discourage you from working hard. If you need inspiration that just remember that this world is built by ordinary people doing extraordinary things and never giving up but adjusting until something works!
Did he actually curse you or did he say "you"ll never succeed in life"? Show him wrong, show him you can succeed by working hard, prove to him you can be successful, don't let what he says hurt you, you are stronger than words. Choose something your good at and put time into it.
I would try this this form of defense against psychic attack. First, you relaxe your body, let your arms and legs become limp. Become calm. Then take a salt and/or mint water bath. Then when you are finished anoint your self with oil (your choice)on your forehead, shoulders, and chest the sine of the pentagram while chanting:
In the name of mercy
With the power of fate,
Pray attend me now
While my need is great.
This ceremony of stilling the mind completes the ritual above. Create a circle of your most treasured belongings and sit in it, grasping your knees ever so lightly and bringing them up to your chin. Them begin to chant a rhythm or lyric you know by heart until it losses all meaning to you. Remain in this attitude of contemplation until you loss all thought.
To maintain your protection you should burn incense of rue, vervain, sage, or if you have some, the leaves of St Johns Wort. To carry a amulet, talisman, or charm is not a bad idea either.
I think this will help you, as it has helped me once when I was under psychic attack. Here is how I know this technique will work.
1. The pentagram is a charm against evil. It repels negative energy, demons, and any form of astral, spiritual, or magical evil. There are many beliefs why it dose this. Some say it is because it represents the five wounds of Jesus Crist when he was put on the cross. Others say it is because it represents the five elements, Earth, Air, Fire, Water, and Spirit. Others say its because its because it represents the Goddess. Know one really knows but people do know it repels evil.
2. A salt and mint bath combo is great for loosening muscles, relieving stress, and putting your mind at ease. Salt is also known to preserve things, so it would be (magically speaking) presser your spirit that has not been touched by evil.
3. Rue, vervain, sage, and St Johns Wort have always been known to repel evil as the are herbs of purification, healing, and spiritual growth. Devils have always disliked the herbs and never go near them.
4. And finally, and talisman of charm of luck or protection just because it will protect you wherever you go, it will be especially effective if you make it yourself.
Well that's all I am going to post right know, I hope you find what I posted helpful. Best of luck! :)
Sores for the ritual:
Witches All by Elizabeth Pepper and John Wilcock.
Sores for the why it would work part:
The Black Arts by Richard Cavendish
The Grimoire for the Apprentice Wizard by Zell Osborn Ravenheart
he's just a mean man who wants you to doubt yourself. do not listen to him. you will unknowingly welcome negative energy into your life and make his 'curse' real.
if you want, you can cleanse and protect yourself and your home. simple cleansing is with sage smudge, but you can also use salt or salt water and sprinkle it around your home. [sea salt bath to cleanse yourself] there are many methods however, so find one that works for you. the key is to visualize negative energy being cleansed away, replaced by positive energy, and to believe it worked. to doubt yourself will weaken the cleansing because you're welcoming negative energy back.
for a protection you could do a chant, draw a protection symbol, hang a protection charm in your home, or look up another spell [like with cleansings there's so many options, find the one that works for you]
once that's done, do your best, and be confident you'll succeed. it can be scary, you might think back to his words when you're low, but remember they were just words said out of anger simply to hurt you, you have the power to shape your future. [trust me, i've got an uncle who threatened me. point is, you don't need people like that. i cut my uncle from my life and things have been amazing. focus on your path and you'll be fine.]
I agree that it could have been all words and if you continue to think of it as something real, you yourself will make it real. And that usually happens when you start and continue to doubt yourself or your every action!
One thing I learned about people is-- They want to be affected. With talents and a sense of responsibility you will reach greater heights, and people (mostly relatives and family) want to be part of the affected. (It could be in the form of a blessing, for jealous one's in the form of curse)
And there are times it comes as a question to us, where we must ask ourselves: Is this the best that I can do or achieve? Maybe you haven't really been doing the best, while people see potential in you, you are just wasting your time on things they find boring. But it doesn't mean you have to look down on yourself. Think of it as an opportunity to prove them wrong! Find some reason for you to be inspired, use that to motivate you all the way till you can face them and tell them: Look at where I am now!
You just need the proper mindset to get you there. Time is also what you have with you!
I don't think you have been cursed, but words have power and a callous remark can stick with you. Prove him wrong, who cares what he thinks, you will succeed in life if you put in the effort.
I don't think you have been cursed the same happened to me. An ex boyfriend told me I would never succeed if I split with him and for about 2 years after my life went downhill. I believed it was what he said that had cursed me . In fact it was the reason I started researching magick. I sat and wrote a list of all the things I wanted to achieve and recited positive affirmations to myself every day working towards my goals (meditation and visualisation ) was my key to success from the situation! I was a single parent with no job but gradually it got better. I'm now self employed running my own business, met my soul mate and raised 4 great kids on my own, I'm soon to be a grandmother! Sadly my ex died 3 years ago, I say sadly because without that so called "curse" I wouldn't be where I am now and I have a lot to thank him for, his curse propelled me forward to the happy life I have now.
Sometimes the universe has to unravel everything around us so we can start afresh! ground,centre and shield yourself and from the heart chakra send pink loving light to your enemies. Trust me you won't fail!
