Sure it can. Sexual energy can be pretty powerful whether it's generated with a partner or solo.
As for using a spell to make a specific person be sexually attracted to you, it's not something I would recommend. Messing with another's free will usually leads to some nasty consequences later. It might be better to use a spell to make yourself sexually attractive in general instead.
Hello! So this is why I'm thinking of sex magic to make another desire me more. My sex drive is the highest it has ever been my whole life. My husband is younger than I and his sex drive is not like mine.
However I would love to know more about your recommendation to make oneself sexually attractive. Please!
With the pandemic my partner and I were unable to go out and do things together because everything was basically shutdown. All we did was spend the evenings at each other’s homes. After awhile this became very, very routine. Honestly we were getting bored with each other. Even when things opened up again it seemed we were having trouble getting back to where we were before this started. I bought this book back in March and it has helped:
“Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection” by Sophie Saint Thomas
Just do a search with the whole title and author’s name. I bought the E-book but you can also get it in paperback. Even though we are Gay this book is meant for all orientations. It covers a lot from attracting partners to relationships.
Hmm. IN that case, I would encourage him to make sure his lack of sex drive isn't due to a medical issue or stress. Everyone is different, but it probably wouldn't hurt to get that checked out. This is assuming that he still finds you attractive but just can't get in the mood for some reason.
Have you discussed this with him? Often sex drive is related to emotional state as well. Make sure to communicate with him and see if he is going through something or if there's some stress that is keeping him from focusing on sex or getting in the mood.
Another thing you can try is mixing it up a little bit. Monogamous relationships can hit a rut every now and then sexually due to routine, so talk with him. Ask if there is anything he's always wanted to try. Or if there is something you have been wanting to try, you should let him know.
Another thing you can do is really set the mood. Plan ahead. It might not feel spontaneous, but you could really plan something romantic to get you both on the same page emotionally and sexually. Candles, a nice dinner, whatever comes to mind when you picture a romantic night with him. You might even try surprising him this way. There are plenty of small romance spells you can do here or lust spells to get the energy around you feeling right too.
I really think the best solution in sexual situations is to discuss it with your partner though. If you're feeling neglected or have a higher sex drive lately, explain what you're feeling to him. Tell him what he could do to help you. Ask if there is anything in the way or any reason he seems out of it to you lately, and ask if there is anything you can do to help him. Communication is key here. Lust spells are fun, but they're no substitute for communication if there really is something you two need to discuss.
Magick can not alter free will only influence it. So if he has the sexual capability to sexually desire you then there is a possibility it could work. When it comes to this level of spellcraft, magickcan only influence something that is already there and make it higher. If he has not even an ounce of desire the spell will most likely fail.
After reading a couple of the other replies to eyesbabyblue’s post I thought it is important to note that the point of using our abilities is to make ourselves, our energies, attractive so someone would, of their own free will, be drawn to that energy.
Animals in nature do this by displaying their plumage, bird song, mating calls, scent glands or ritualistic mating dances.
Humans are still animals, we do the same thing weather consciously or unconsciously. Trying to look our best, putting on makeup, dressing sharp, just the right perfume or cologne, flirting, behaving seductively, driving a nice vehicle or having cool stuff.
Whether or not you subscribe to this specifically yourself as a species we do it. Just watch an evening of commercials to see a whole bunch of examples, lol. We are trying to attract someone, it is the meaning of the word “Attraction”
The point is our abilities through magic are another means to put our energies out there to attract. A lover, a friend, a certain type of encounter or to overcome an obstacle by making yourself open for a solution. If the energy you put out there does not do what you intended, does not attract who or what you wanted then the energy you put out did not appeal to the other person. it was not right, it did not attract and will dissipate.
If it is your intension to use your abilities to bend the will of another to your own then that is wrong! It is invasive. Not much different than assault really. This will more than likely blow up on you. It will result in unintended and negative consequences and in that instance you kind of deserve the result.
