use a spell to make her seem less attractive, a spell to make you seem more attractive, and a spell to strengthen your relationship. life is not fair, magick is the key to leveling the playing field so if there's a problem to be solved why not use magick, that's what it was intended for. not trying to make you seem stupid Wayofthewind though magick is meant to level the playing field and if your not going to use magick for its purpose the why ever use it at all?
Azignis...using magick for trival problems shows that you are not mentally strong enuogh to handle them by yourself.
It's not a matter of leveling the playing field, it's a matter of being secure in yourself to handle lifes issues.
If you have to do a spell to make someone unattracitve...You need some serious self esteem classes. Same with making yourself more attractive. Relationships aren't always about looks. And once you grow up a bit and understand what truely holds a relationship together, you'll know that.
Until then, you can go around casting spells on people to make them pay attention to you, but in the end, you'll still be an uniteresting person who couldn't get a date by non magickal means...and that alone makes you a sad sad person.
Try living life without using a spell for everything. You may be surpised how fullfilling it can be.
And we wonder why those of us that use magick get such a bad name.Magick is not intended to level the playing field everytime somone doesnt get the girl or guy they think they want.It could even be the reason why the field is unlevel to begin with.Im amazed at people wanting to use magick for things that should be part of the natural growing process.If you want to keep somone,man or woman,examine the situation,if theres somthing your doing wrong and you care for that person,,,change it.If there is somthing wrong with the way there doing things,explain it to them and ask them to change it.If they dont then maybe it just wasnt meant to be.Magick is not a get out of jail free card from all the pain and learning that has to be done in life.
healer, when did i say i use those spells myself, never. and do you not use a can opener to open cans, a pencil to write. soap and water to wash? all these things are trivial tasks done with tools we use in life, magick is another form of tool in a way that we may use to progress in life, when you become wiser you will understand, the lady asked a question. i answered it. she did not say a non-magickal way to do she asked for a SPELL, if she asked for a non-magickal way i would have given her one. magick helps make life easier, i did not say she has to use this method, or she must take my advice. and nodrk if by what you said that you are implying that i give mages a bad reputation, then that means you see every mage who answers a question or tries to help someone bad. if that's your view of a good mage i cannot imagine your idea of a good one.
Ok. So if someone asks you how to kill a person, and you know a way, you feel you should answer it because they asked? Or would you offer a different method? It's called responsibility with the knowledge you possess. Just because someone asks for something doesn't mean you have to offer exactly what they ask. And love spells, in my personal opinion, are disgusting. I see no point in forcing someone to care for you.
Using a pencil to write is very different than casting a spell to get your way. Tool, yes. But magick is an unfair advantage in many cases. Using it all the time to get whatever it is you want when youre in an emotional state shows, as I said, that you are a weak person.
Personally, if I do a spell, its very general in its purpose. Say I do one for money. I make it in a way so that it doesnt fall out of the sky. A new job oppurnunity. The wisdom to see the situation is a different light. That is very different than say...asking for the winning lotter numbers.
Spells, in my opinion, should not be used for everything under the sun. When you start to do that, you miss out on the simple pleasures in life because you are determined to avoid them. What a miserable exsistance.
Azignis,If you had so much as a clue,you see what I said is its people that think that magick could and should be used for every little thing in life that gives it a bad name.You giving the word Mage a bad name isnt possible.
Personally I believe your a mage like I believe your an astronaut.Ive seen or heard nothing Of REAL MAGICK from you,only the ramblings of an imature person,trying to make people believe he can solve the worlds problems with magick.
As faras answering questions and giving information,Ive done both far more and far longer than you,but the difference is,I apply it to areas where magick should be applied,and not as a bandaid for every little scratch life throws at you
the best spell is that you have your boyfriend call the girl and explain how he feels about you and if once isnt good enough than you try acouple of times until she gets it through her head...thats a spell more than once that he tells of his love for you....
i give them knowledge, they use it responsibly or irresponsibly, sure i could tell how to use it but ultimately, they will use it how they please. i'm not saying use magick from everything as moving to living. i'm just trying to help someone who had a question. i too dislike spells that take away free will. i see them as cruel.
and nodrk, i've been on this site for over a year and been in magick far longer than that, you may call me immature i care not, though i will point out that i did not attack for no reason. all i talk of is real magick, or i help people with knowledge,problems they are going through by just being someone they can talk to, i have always helped where i can, and i have not once rambled.
