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Bluelight, for all you know, there is no connection between the spells you've performed and your situation.

And if there is, then perhaps you should describe the spells you used. Someone here maybe able to show u a way to undo them. Please avoid using the incantation... u dont want some idiot here trying them out for size.

Also, please do describe your family situation before you did the family spell. Was your family peaceful and loving? Did they fight a lot? All this information will only help people help you.

If its too personal, you can ask someone here permission to send them a PM.

Hope things sort of for you

Thanks for the support.My family are drunks and violent .i did a family spell to get rid of the bad vibes ,it was actually a spell in the waning of the moon to get rid of my health problems .money worries and family problems all in one.I made up the spell myself ,i cant remmeber what it was exactly .Yeah its bloody sick to say i deserve getting the shite kicked out of me

Sometimes we suffer because it is something that happens to help the soul grow and mature (yes, this even happens to innocent people). What you need to do is stand up for yourself. I don't know all of the situation, so I can't say much more than that, I'm sorry. bles

bluelight,
Keep getting help. Scream it to the authorities if you need to.
Find someone who will listen!
Yes, it's true. What goes around, comes around. But not all the time and not for everyone. Another term you may not have heard; destinies collide. Bad people are going to do bad things no matter what. We can't control every aspect of life around us. Trying to control forces around us is like tossing matches on gasoline. Eventually something bad is going to happen. Energy reacts to outside energy. It's natural. The magic you study should take a new direction for you. Study subtle energies that have a "softer" effect on the world around you.
Magic can't simply solve your problems. That, my friend is your job. Get help, study more, trust in your destiny, and never give up.

"Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening."
- Emma Thompson
Hope this helps(seriously).

Rashnu get off your high horse. Brycing was not talking about an innocence child being abused by a parent. Bluelight3 is supposedly an experienced practitioner with 10 years under their belt. Anyone who has actual magical knowledge understands that all spells have their risks. Casting a "love spell" and then a "family spell" and it resulting in someone becoming physical with you sounds like a classic backfire or possibly karma coming back to teach you. Either way a person with so many years of experience should know a few thing to try in order to correct the situation. A reversal or breaking of the spells. A protection spell to stay the hand that is abusive. The list goes one and on.

I think this is a classic case of look at me, pity me, childish behavior. I can't imagine that if Bluelight3 did talk to the authorities that they ignored her. Especially if she has been beaten and bares the markings that come with it.

Bluelight3 if this is your reality I don't think this is a cleansing but rather a wake up call. You need to focus your energy on removing yourself from the situation you are in. If you truly have not done anything to deserve how life is treating you then you will be giving the opportunity to escape. Keep you eyes and ears open, meditate and gather you strength, so that when the door is open you can head out it into a better life.

@ Draggy_tnd - It is also used as a term given to a group of magical organisations or orders, Wicca being one of them.

If you had of read the wikipedia page in full you would have, picked that up.

Personally I don't think this is a spell backfiring or gone wrong at all, to say someone is getting abused at home because they cast a love spell is over the top.

Doc, I think I agree with you, i doubt that this a case of a spell backfiring. Blulight has always been a part of an abusive environment, which got worse.

Bluelight...I dont think your loneliness and illness is because of the spells. It's probably the psychological repurcussions of living in an abusive environment. Someone here very rightly said that there are some people who will continue to do bad things no matter what you do... even spells. Now, I understand that some of us are extremely attached to our families and no matter how mean or nasty certain members are, we still love them and dont want to hurt them, even if they hurt us. You may have apprehensions about handing them over to the cops and its understandable. But Bluelight, you cannot continue to live with so much negativity around you. Because no matter what spell you cast, this negativity will seep in and make matters worse. If I couldnt muster the courage to go to the authorities, I would first focus on getting well and make plans on moving out and living on my own. Now, dont get me wrong. Please donot bolt and run away from home without having a means to support yourself. Thats why you need a plan. Once you're away from the abusive environment. You can send your family positive energy from a distance. And once your at peace with your life, love will come.
In the meantime, find a way to protect yourself from any further physical assault

You have misunderstood what I said. I was using a "modern" term for the 3 fold effect. And I was referring, as was the original post, to magic spells. Perhaps it would be better put as "What you send out, will come back."

Conjuredoc - Wikipedia is the worst resource you can use for anything, not to mention most schools and colleges won't even accept it as a reference as it is edited by anyone and everyone. You will find more opinion within most wiki's than actual truth. If you are going to suggest that someone reads all of something, makes sure its a creditable source. ;)

Draggy we certainly need more people like you, its been a while since i have seen real knowledge on here aside from a few members like kts, i completely agree and see draggy's view, at the moment i don't really have much to add to this most of what is needed was already said.