It could be a house spirit. Those things can be very faithful and protective BUT as soon as you argue or fight with them they turn nasty. Are you sure that he is a spirit and not one of the fey? He could be a brownie gone bogart of a vengeful domovoi... What ever he is he sounds like trouble and should be asked nicely to go away. If he doesn't leave then you might want to force him out...
please, its important, don´t give in to this spirit whatever you do, you can mail me if you want any more details, but take this seriously, Ive been there too, and can only say its a really, really, bad idea to do what he saYs, he wont stop until he gets what he wants and believe me its no good!!
hey, Um I know Ive ansered this a few times, but I really want to say this, because Ive been in the same situation, please don´t trust this spirit, this is comming from someone who has had the same happen to me and I really, really wouldnt say this if it wasnt important, but please dont listen to him or trust him or do what he says,no matter how long you know him it could get really nasty. I know from experience and I really hope you make the right decision for you,.
Not necessarily Birdseed, that's like saying all birds make messy and terrible house-pets. Although usually messy, they can occasionally be fun to be around, and a joy to care for. Some people work well with spirits, and welcome them into their life, though like a lot of things, you hear the bad side to it more than the good side. Sure you might have personal experience with these beings, but in reality, you are you, not multiple people.
So one's experience can be completely different than anothers. I find that if you keep a friendly, open mind, it is easy to set boundries and communicate with spirit beings, but always be calm and approach them gently. You wouldn't yell at a human to understand them or compramise with them, you would carefully talk it out, in a loving fashion.
Same goes with spirits, be open, be willing, be loving, and you have done your job!
Just remember that YOU are always in control. Never let Rori control your actions through his temper. Let him know that you will only pay attention to him when he is respectful and minds his manners. Definitely keep a clean, positive space around you.
Spirits are almost exactly like people if it were not for the fact we can not touch one another without AP. I agree. Do not start a realationship with them just like you would not start a realationship with a possessive boy friend. I think you need to have a real talk with them. Tell them how you feel. Though this has becombe more of realationship advice than magical advice and i do not give very good realationship advice so dont take this too seriusly.
Spirts are cool and stuff, as a kid would say. But its best if you part with it when the bond is not too strong. Once the bound is stable it will star to cause trouble for you. As spirits they focus on only few emotions, but are stronly grounded to them. But once they start clinging on to someone they will take on the the hidden emotion of the person. usually the side that is hidden form the person, or the side in the Subcounscious mind. When they do they will become unstable and unpredictable with their actions and because they are energy and has no vessle, it will lead to bad consequences. As for your problem, it could be that the sprit has been with you for a long time and has now become more then your friend it may think that its your other mate as to say. So now it may be too late. Also it is now over the limit of what I know.
Here's what I would suggest, do not get too connected with a spirit, relationship wise, or you will overinduldge in it. Keep your senses alert, do nt let your gaurd down for a second, and do not bite off more than you can chew.
thanks guys. ^_^ though the situation is over now. Rori's normal again. i talked with him, and things are fine. little worried because i'm movie he'll stay at the old house, but he follows me everwhere, so it shouldn't be a problem. i have 3 other friends who all have spirits with them. he's not a fan of them. it's rather funny hearing him call a spirit a perve. [quick side note, 2 of my 3 friends have rather forsitive spirits attached to them, one has undressed female friends in their sleep if they're at my friends house] anyway, my point is thanks for the advise, really helpful, but Rori's back to his old self, and there's no need for concern. thanks again ^_^
