I cannot believe people are so... well ignorant these days. I am sorry, but tell your boyfriend to suck it up. He is gonna be looking at boys for the rest of his life. :/ sorry.
But let him know, he is not alone. There are plenty of people out there today struggling with their sexuality. I am glad to see you guys tried the hotlines.
Try and get him to go to group sessions for teens struggling/question their own sexuality. I think it would benefit him a lot.
It seems to me he is trying to shut out who he is inside, which will just drive him insane. He needs to accept who he is regardless of the consequences from anyone (yes, even god) and just say to himself, "I am me. This is who i am. I am exactly who I am supposed to be, and nothing, not even god, can change that."
If you think about it, if god controls everything, and made everyone, by that logic, he made gay people. :/
Homosexuality is a permanant state of being not a disease. It happens in nature and no psychological manipulation can change it. I often find that magic simply makes the odds work in the casters intent. Magic doesn't do the impossible like change sexual oriientation. There might be spells you can do to help him adjust with his situation or make his homosexuality ignored by others so that he isn't stigmatized. Magic really isn't right for this its about him being comfortable in his own skin. This is like curing him from being a guy.
I wish you luck and I hope that everthing works out perfectly for you and your friend
this is a horrible thread and should be deleted. homosexuality is not a disease, not a magical "character" and has nothing to do with magic. this is ridiculous. your friend needs to see someone to help him deal with something that he's upset about and help him come to terms with it. its nothing that can be changed. and under no circumstances should u attempt to use any magic to try and "cure" him. if he's suicidal, its an issue that should be addressed to his parents, and if you love him as a friend you would bring it to their attention. its not your business to out him to his parents but if he's serious about taking his life, you need to tell them. because if something happens, you'll feel guilty. but if he's not suicidal, then he should seek a school guidance councilor about coming to terms with his homosexuality. don't let anyone here give u any spell or ritual to do on him.
Homosexuality is not a problem. I would personally put more effort into stopping the bullying. But if you are looking for a way to stop being homosexual i would do a series of visualization meditations. But alot of things that can be done with magic would take the same amount of effort to do with magic than if you did it without magic. I would rather do it without magic. This story is very sad though. I hope it all ends up ok.
Re: Ok.....strange questi By: chainedbeast
Post # 16 Apr 22, 2012
Tell him that being gay is not a bad thing. one of my friends is gay, he gets picked on for it sure, but what seems too always help him is to except him and stand up for him. Try to convince him, nicely, that its a fine thing, and that if any religion says its a horrible thing that it is not a true path too take. I hope this helps, blessed be.
There is nothing wrong with being gay. As lots of people have put it already, homosexuality is completely natural. Sexual orientaion and love... There is nothing 'sinful' or 'evil' about anything that comes from the heart.
You all told me there is nothing wrong with being gay, and I know this. I told him a million times it's okay, and that I'll be next to him whatever happens. And BF stands for best friend, not boyfriend :) I was mad at him at first too, but his parents are religeos homophobes, and if they know, they will probably send him away. I think he's afraid of that. I told him not to tell them, but he wants them to know.
i would strongly reccommend ( as in my earlier post ) him to seek a councellor who can help him with his own feelings and how to talk to his parents about his sexuality. some people who are gay sadly never come out for fear of what their family or peers will think or say, i wish both you and him well , many blessing macus
