My Thoughts and Feelings about using Magick to FORCE someone to love you.
Why do some of you feel the need to force someone to love you?
I was with my ex for 10 years and I have known him for many more. We may have broken up but we are the best of friends. I refused to do any magick to get him to come back to me. We were not meant to be together as lovers yet we are meant to be together as best friends. How is it?
My ex is my soul mate ask him and he will tell you the same. Now just because we are soul mates does NOT mean we have to be lovers. We both know we have to be in each others lives.
In all honesty I had a broken heart for a long time it took me almost 2 years to be able to move on without him. Please take my advice and give yourself time to heal your heart and soul. Please do not rush or force him to talk to you. I waited and he came to me on his own and I would not have had it any other way.
Then there are those of you that think it is all fine and dandy to do love spells that forcing someone to go against their own free will is no big deal. Think about this for a minute please.
Say things were turned around. Meaning you wanted nothing to do with your ex that you only wanted to move on with your life. Ok?
Then your ex thinks well I want you back and I do not care about what you want it is all about what I want. So this means it is perfectly ok for me (the ex) to do whatever I think I must. So I cast a spell on you to force you to come back to me. I make you go against what you and your heart truly want because I only care about what I want. Your now under my spell and there you will stay.
Now tell me How would you know for absolute certainty that the ex is with you because they truly love you or are being forced and blinded because you put your needs above theirs and used magick?
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First of love spells are considered black magic (not that im one to talk aboat black magic), but forcing somebody to obsess over you, thats not actual love, but if you talk than just ask him aot, your lucky that it didn't work like you wanted
I've always found "forcing" someone to love you is only temporarily relieving the pain. At the most, you get about three months to come to terms with the impending doom. Kinda like prolonging a death I guess. Some people can't handle it well and those three months give them time to get accustomed to the idea of being alone. A lot of times people mistakenly think that they've fixed everything and things will go back to normal. It's been my experience they crumble once more. A person will regain his or her senses at some point.
Obsession? That's not good. Besides, you're a very pretty young lady. I'm sure there's more than one other guy who's happy you're single. Keep your eyes open for new experiences.
Dear Doublegirl69,
Okay. There is something you should know. You should probably NEVER mess with love spells. They cause havoc, and if casted incorrectly, you're going to have a lot on your plate. Second of all, love spells basically manipulate a person's will. In other words, you are forcing somebody to become obsessed with you, when they aren't. You are taking away some their freedom, and last time I heard, America is a free country. But even more importantly, you're messing with negative karma. What are you going to get back? Six times the negative karma. "What goes around, comes around", is a quote related to karma. Furthermore,when you said, "The person in question has started to talk to me, make a conversation with me, unfortunately this is not what I had wanted from the spells I cast. I wanted this person to become obssessed with me and love me and ask me out before christmas," perhaps he has a strong will.
Try this one. This is how I got my husband (no lie)
Needed:
2 drops ylang ylang oil
Sandalwood (or clary sage oil)
Pink candle
Prepare the ingredients while burning the pink candle and meditating upon finding love. Pour the oil into a tight lid bottle with dropper. Wear whenever you are going to meet potential mates.
