Control Someone's Will

Love spells are the most unethical spells of all

By the way if you say that you tryed to make one and it didn't work you confess in that you want to control someone and you have tryed, which is already bad in general, and I dont think that anyone will give you a spell like this because nobody balives that you will use it for anything but personal gain

Why is it morally wrong to force someone into a relationship but into hiring you for a job? Forcing someone to do anything, hiring firing, to give you or forget you its all forcing someone to do something.:
All spell work moves, shifts, changes, manipulates, forces. All of it is to make something go your way no matter who,what, when, where or why you're casting. Best you can do is measure intent and try to do what's right.
hiring the wrong person for a job could get someone fired. So even whispering for a job could harm, no?

After you die you lose your will

I disagree. I believe when you move out of your body for the final time you still have a certain amount of control. Why else would spirits stay here instead of moving on?

who ever said it was a one-way-trip?

If it's not 1 way then why need to do a love spell in the first place?

I posted a humans freewill topic in misc topics so as not to further disrupt this topic.

Well said kim30.

It never ends well.

Be it a love spell that forces a specific individual to love another... or one that forces someone to give you their money spell - it never ends well. Regardless of the end intent.

Freewill is to humans what sunlight is to plants. While you can take a little away for short periods of time and they survive, the longer the spell is on the survival rate drops... Sort of like three months of darkness pretty much kills any plant.

I used to do 'forceful' spells... with mixed results... Mind I myself was forced to do those sorts of things... And guess who 'the universe' did NOT punish... What has to thumbs and is replying at this moment...

Is this divinity at work? I won't hazard a guess.

The spells that work best are those where all parties are in agreement. A general 'call my lover' type spell which sends out the vibration for 'that special someone' to find the caster seeks out someone who is actually willfully wanting to find their love.

Those tend to work better, with far less consequence, than the ones where we pick Joe Hammer because we like his eyes and have fallen for him but he doesn't notice us so we force it on him.

There is no way to 'nicely' control the will of another. Manipulation is bad no matter if its done through magic or psychology.