Hi Roserettacry, I don't know your age, but if it makes you feel any better, long time ago I was desperate just like you :) And I got my first period at age 21, once and it stopped and came back six month later, than nothing and I started taking birth control ,because once i started getting it, it was for too many days, so if you are not 18, or 19, just enjoy it, because nothing is wrong with you.
Also why not visiting a doctor and sharing your concern, I am sure you will have more information that is helpful, and if you still need a spell, start a new discussion or keep this one going.
Re: First period spells By: RubyElysian / Beginner
Post # 12 Mar 07, 2018
WingedGirl, there is not really a spell that will make menstrual cramps go away but there are many physical things you can do to ease the pain. For example, you could start with over the counter pain medicine (I like Ibuprofin or A piece but most of them work good enough), and try to relax till it kicks in. I have many things I do to ease my cramps which are always really bad the first day or two at least. I take pain killers and try to relax because when you're tense your muscles tighten and it hurts worse, I also use a heating pad over my stomach to help relax the muscles, drink hit tea, or I take a long hot shower. In my experience laying stretched out will help the pain go away, when I have my legs tucked up there's more tightness and it hurts. It also may sound funny but it doesn't feel funny it hurts, when you get your period you are more prone to passing gas and (for me at least) indigestion, one thing that helps that pass is laying on your left side. This helps because while the outside of our bodies seem mostly symmetrical out organs are not, because of the placement of openings to other organs in our digestive system the gas passes faster on the left side. Another good tip is to avoid tight or even moderately tight pants while you're cramping. These things really do make a difference for me and I hope they help you as well.
@ Cohanim, i've got a friend who had really rare periods, like she had her first one at 16, her second one when she was 18, then two when she was 19, doctors finally diagnosed her almost 10 years later [i forget when it was called] anyway, point being if it's irregular speak to your doctor, unfortunately they aren't always helpful or accurate the first time, but its better to be safe and know what you're dealing with. my friend is fine, she didn't care about not getting her period but trying to diagnose her was a big deal because she wanted to have kids one day so she visited the doctor regularly for years. [good news she does have a son, and they figured out what she had this year because she's trying for a second child]
