Ok, this is a big job, one that you should do your research on and one that will require some serious spellwork. Don't be afraid, though. You can do this yourself, even if you are inexperienced. God/dess helps those who are righteous and justified.
Do a Google search for any terms that are unfamiliar to you. I'd look for many of my spells and technques on the Lucky Mojo website. My blog (look on my profile tab) also has a lot of how-to-type articles and some spells and recipes that may be of use.
First, do a spiritual cleansing of your home and especially your children's spaces. Consider throwing away anything from this past lover that your children would not object heavily too. The less links the better. Do this immediately - it helps to have a spiritually blank state from which to do the rest of your work off of. You can find how-to articles on my blog.
Do a heavy-duty protection spell for you and your children. I would not mess around on this one, doing some little chant or something easy. The only spell i personally would consider is an old traditional one called Fiery Wall of Protection. You can purchase spell kits online, or you can research this spell online and assemble your ingredients yourself. I rarely tell people that only one spell will do, but this is one i can personally vouche for time and time again. When real dangerous nutjobs are at hand, i don't mess around with experimental work.
After doing this spell or something very similar, then i'd recommend reseaching some type of protective amulet to wear, both for you and each of your children. Amulets need to be "fed" energy every so often, so caring for an amulet is something you should research.
An important thing to consider is that when a person has an active enemy who is not likely to go away, they need to continue the spellwork until the person is out of the picture. You may have to recast the Fiery Wall spell every few months, every month, whatever feels right, including a spiritual cleansing of your home. If your children have contact with this person, you need to redo the spell every time they see him. You also need to keep recharging the amulet. I am a big fan of taking spiritual baths - they really reinforce workings - you and your children may have to take spiritual baths once a week or more.
St. Michael the Archangel is a wonderful diety that protects those who are devoted to Him and pray in His name. Perhaps you may consider erecting a small altar to Him, putting one of His holy cards by everyone's bed, and/or wearing his metal around your neck.
Lastly, instead of a revenge spell, perhaps a reversing spell may be more effective. Do some research and see how it sits with you. I especially like mirror box spells that use doll babies and graveyard dirt. I find them very effective. Google "Reversing Spells" and/or "Mirror Box Spells" and look for any website that comes from Lucky Mojo or is a hoodoo site. Reversing spells turn any nastiness from this person back to them. You typically do them once - they are a lot of work - and then the mirror box is laid to rest, buried in a graveyard for the spirits to oversee the work. This is good, strong spellwork.
You have many options here. Research them, find what works. Best of luck.
Thank you so much. Is there anyone that can do them with me or for me that you would recommend? I will try and I had one other e-mail offering suggestions. I would just feel so much more confident if I had more experience. We have court soon and I am compelled in asking for justice to be served swiftly and preferably before our date in court. This way if their lies and manipulation fall apart before hand not only will it save me financially a fortune, but I believe it will drive the two of them apart. He is an idiot. (Yes I admit I married and divorced an idiot but after being in a physically abusive marriage at that time I thought there was nothing better)She has a PhD and could not have children. I believe she seen him as an easy target, and thought I would be just as dumb. I have put up a hell of a fight despite the energy they try to suck out of my life. Together they a nightmare. If she was not there to do all his dirty deeds he would have been smart enough to falsify the evidence the way she does. His other child he'd never seen and completely omitted to everyone but me that he even existed. Now that he has someone to do all of his work for him he bullies, tries to intimidate and push his way. If she wasn't there he would just go away. And as long as I'm on a rampage here I might as well add how she gets free disability money from the government every month to fund this game of theirs. She came up with the disease that cannot be tested for, plays the symptoms, and gets the money. Brilliant. Evil. Relentless. She's gone so far as to leave my little girl alone in stores, and parking lots. My daughter says she comes up in her room in the middle of the night sometimes staring at her, other times saying something horrible and leaving. She said one time she snatched the nightlight out of her room and then she could not have it back until she could behave. Even the counselors agree it is all hearsay and he's too much of an idiot and too full of hate to even realize this selfishness is what drove me away and now his destructive and contemporaneous behaviors has destroyed the love of his child toward him. I feel no pity. I wish I felt rage. But it is just so sad.
You do not need to be experienced to cast spells that are desperately needed. Others will disagree, but i know this to be a fact. Magic is not reserved for the privileged few who have the time to devote to practice and study. Magic is for people in need and it sounds like you need this work now.
Plus, this type of work SHOULD be done by you. No one else has your passion and need for success. You need to get your own hands dirty. You need to make your own prayers and petitions.
How could a professional do spiritual house cleanings for you? How could a professional do spiritual baths for you. At best you could get someone to make you amulets, but you need to do your own protection spells and a reversing spell if you decide on it.
Also, there are so many frauds out there who claim to do magic for people. In my estimation, at least 90% of the ones advertising on the internet are frauds. If you have no experience, i'm not sure you'd be able to tell the difference. A good con-man/woman will be very convincing.
Do your own work. You can do it - i'm sure it's not the hardest thing you've ever had to do. It's worth it.
*I wanted to answer your post entirely. So I hope you don't mind that I broke it up. I was going to email you, but this works.
[You do not need to be experienced to cast spells that are desperately needed. Others will disagree, but i know this to be a fact. Magic is not reserved for the privileged few who have the time to devote to practice and study. Magic is for people in need and it sounds like you need this work now.]
I believe this too. I have been doing binding spells and reversal spells and even made some "witches brew". She got stung twice, the rim of her car is bent like it hit a curb, his front tire blew on his truck, they both broke out in a nasty acne. They both got a nasty cough that lasted for weeks. And now without fail everything she cooks sets off the fire alarms. Don't ask me. But thats it. The actions have not curbed. They still pursue. And I find it physically exhausting fighting them both. I don't know which ones have worked, what is coinsidence and what is just dumb luck out of my own brew.
[Plus, this type of work SHOULD be done by you. No one else has your passion and need for success. You need to get your own hands dirty. You need to make your own prayers and petitions.]
Oops. Mostly answered that in the above answer. I am hoping for reinforcements. I am exhausted.
[How could a professional do spiritual house cleanings for you?]
This I wanted to answer in your first reply. I have done a sloppy job of this, and will follow up on your recommendations.
[How could a professional do spiritual baths for you.]
Didn't know about this. I did mention my strength is faith not knowledge? PLease be patient with me.
[At best you could get someone to make you amulets, but you need to do your own protection spells and a reversing spell if you decide on it.]
I made amulets and protection spells for my daughter. Didn't even know thats what I was doing but it turns out that I must have done well because even though they still torment her she has not recently been in her room over there sense she started to carry it. But they may have been counselour intervention too. Even she said that was creepy.
[Also, there are so many frauds out there who claim to do magic for people. In my estimation, at least 90% of the ones advertising on the internet are frauds. If you have no experience, i'm not sure you'd be able to tell the difference. A good con-man/woman will be very convincing.]
Maybe thats why I finally felt 'pushed' to join. I always came and read, researched, left. *I feel like I need literally the power of three* because perhaps I am fighting three? IDK. Its what my heart and soul feels is needed to be done with it and quit playing games. I don't know how to explain it besides I am amplified when I'm around other gifted people. A connection is made. They feel it instantly too.
[Do your own work. You can do it - i'm sure it's not the hardest thing you've ever had to do. It's worth it.]
I will continue to try. And no it isn't the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I understand you.
The last thing I want to add... this attorney, it is wispered that he is/ or was in the occult and killed a little girl. But after quiet investigations was cleared and could not be connected to the crime. I never heard of this crime until I was told by someone. After my research the thoughts of this girl are remindfully in my head as though helping me and reminding me what I am up against. It may or may not make sense to you, but for me, when I read it, I could see the truth.
1 The law of simpathy 2 call on your anseters to watch over you and the children. 3 Do you have gardiens not angils but phyical ones in the flesh if not call to the great mother and she will provide
You could pay a practitioner to back you up, but you'll still have to do the same work. Google: Association of Independant Readers and Rootworkers. It won't be cheap.
It sounds like you've gotten some results with the work you've already done. I would step it up a notch with a mirror box spell buried in the graveyard. You have to make doll babies of each of them, or you can cheat and use figure candles in the shape of a man and a woman. Of course, if you have any personal effects of them, like hairs, handwritting, worn clothing, those must be worked into the doll babies - but that's a whole separate topic. I'm sure if you do your research, you can find what you need to know.
Since you're doing hoodoo, you will probably get more catered advice from a hoodoo site. Lucky Mojo has their own forums, just FYI.