I'm sorry to hear about your friend's grandmother. And I'm sorry that both magic and medicine still havent found what you're looking for. Even then, you want to do everything you can, just so that you don't look back and say "what if". I know that feeling. I've been there. While there may not be a particular spell to replace cancer cells (I wish there was), there are several healing spells. Go through as many as you can and create your own spell with a customised incantation. And while I cannot guarantee you on whether or not the spell will work, I can assure you that when the time comes, you wont beat yourself up for not trying what you thought you could do.
thank you but i realise now it would be better for a spell to ease her pain so she can sleep. and so she is more comfortable in her last moments. if u know of a pain easing spell, please dont be afraid to message me
When my Dad was dying, I wrote letters to Archangel Azrael--the angel of death. I asked him not to take my dad before his time. And if that time was around the corner, I asked him to help him make this transition without causing him too much pain. I asked him to comfort my mother and the rest of my family. Dad was the head of my family, the decision maker, the go-to person. It wasn't easy to watch him suffer and see him go. And I know it isn't easy for you to watch your grandma go either. She's probably been a figure of unconditional love, compassion and comfort to you.
Dad was a religious man. Painfully orthodox at times. And even though I'm not a "praying kinda person", I would hold his hand and pray out loud, especially when he started hallucinating. It would calm him down and strangely it would calm me down too. In his last 3 days, we got a priest to pray by his bedside. What I'm trying to say here is, do everything that you can to bring comfort to your grandma. If religion is not her scene, stroke her head, read or sing or just talk to her. Even if she doesn't seem to be responding, she can still hear you and understand you. Don't forget to tell her that you love her and always will love her. Let her know that you're gonna be ok and most importantly tell her that this pain will be over soon.
Another thing that helped me is knowing what to expect. I've never had anyone this close to me die before. So I needed to know what was happening to my father. A couple articles I read helped me put things in perspective. Thought I'd share them with you:
If she hasn't reached this stage yet and you guys have some time with her, then make the most of it is all I can say.
I wish you and your family strength to pull through this. It will probably be the toughest thing you've had to deal with. But even in the worst of times, remember that this too shall pass.
There seems to be some kinda technical snitch. Half the words in my above post seem eaten up. And for some odd reason i cannot delete and re-posting it will just take up too much space in the forum. So, I'm just gonna mail it to you
Is she in hospice care? They have all the drugs to help with the pain and to help sleep. I took care of my mom when she was dying, and with help from hospice, she went peacefully. Hospice care can be done in the home, if someone is ther with them. I watched my mom take her last breath. It was peaceful, and she was finally free of pain. A great relief and happiness that she was out of a body causing nothing but pain. Hospice will step in when a doctor confirms life will end with in 6 months. I wish you and yours much strength and happiness.
It hurts me to hear something like this, sounds hopeless and sad.
Makes me think about my own grandma and grandpa, and that the winter of life is cold.
Do not fight it, comfort her and let the last of her physical existence be joyous.
We should not fear death, nor should we embrace it, but more, we should accept it and be at peace with it.
I do not know if I hurt someone saying that, but I firmly believes that we should honour the dying by giving them a good end and remember them for the good they have done in life when nothing else can be done.
My mum is currently fighting cnacer but its hard for her its stressing her out but she keeps on fighting, the best thing to do is too fight and never give up.
