Help Please! Desperate

That's what I was afraid of. But I am still willing to try.

It sounds to me as if you're blaming yourself for his affair.

Don't.

Love is a two way street, it is not selfish or cruel. But it can be just as dangerous as hate.

I know you may not want to hear this, but it sounds that if you're trying to make it work, make it better, but he is still having an affair, then you're doing all the work, and that's not love.

My best recommendation is to simply sever ties with him. If he loves you, he'll come back. If not, well...

Again, that might not have been what you wanted to hear, and I apologize if my words upset you in any way. If you know the goodness in him, then you need to give it a chance to shine. If it doesn't, that's not your fault, but you can't make it shine, not even with magik. You cannot alter another's free will. and healing and regaining trust is a long process, even with magik. But that third one will be your best bet if you still want to use magik on this problem.

I can do some research and build you a spell, if you like.

I will take anything you can provide. Thank you!

Also, I feel I should clarify. ..my desire is not to interfere with his free will but rather to turn the tides in my favor.

You poor thing. It's always sad to see love end. But magic is usually not the way to go in this case. Give him some space and some time to think.

I have given him space...he has been staying elsewhere. His mind is made up and he is seeing at attorney in the next hour. I just want another chance, to be better, to do better. I would give anything for that opportunity. There has to be something? Anything?

I don't have much yet, but definitely try invoking Hera, as she is the Goddess of Marriage (among other things) in the Greek Mythos.

You need a "Desamarre Total" protection from a Botanica. I can give you one if you wish, for free. It's a candle. I'll light it in your honor, also I'm gonna light a "Regresa a mi/return to me" candle. This has helped me from time to time. It is guaranteed to work, it just takes a while to kick in. I'm a shaman from Mexico and study Cuban Santeria big time. Just send me a message with the ok and I will light it for you. No catch. No fee.

I am interested. I sent you a private message and would like more information. Thank you!

I am very curious to see how this turns out for you. If he does come back I wonder if marraige and family counseling would be beneficial for you all.