Re: Curse/spell on a ex By: HearthWitch / Knowledgeable
Post # 3 Mar 14, 2017
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Sometimes, a well worded blessing is better than the most powerful curse. The energy you send out always comes back three fold.
Revenge doesn't hurt them. That's what they want you to do. You're just giving them more power. When you curse someone you amplify the negative vibration they started. Blessing someone who hurt you is like singing a different song than they wanted you to sing. When you bless someone, focus on their unmet need. So, in the case of cheating, an example would be:
"In every minute of every day and night may you be aware of how much you are loved. In any moment you forget that you are loved, may a reminder reveal itself to you. And may you always be compelled to reciprocate in kind."
The three fold law in the comment above is not completely true. It is only true if you believe it, just as anything in magic. A powerful curse is going to be near impossible to find on here. Personally I would take care of the situation myself. Start a rumor using a fake account so he doesn't know what's going on, make a fake profile and lead him on to meet you at a specific place a distance away and tell him he's gotta wait there for you to be dropped off and keep saying you are almost there but never show up. Make him bring you like flowers or something that will make him look stupid and then tell people what you did so people laugh at him. I really hate cheaters too lol
Brysing, one of the most intelligent people that there ever was on this website, told me that the only effective way to curse someone was to let them know that you cursed them, which would cause them fear and psychologically effect them without any consequences. Of course this is from an atheistic perspective.
And depending on your beliefs, you may be cautious of a threefold law. But obviously it is not hard to find reasons why you should not curse someone. You probably came on here because when you try to look up curses, you could only find reasons not to curse someone.
If you are looking for a curse, I have personally used this one and it seemed to work for me. I used it on an ex as well.
"Here is a great Hex to bring total chaos to your enemies or someone you hate. Perfect for someone who has done you wrong in a bad way. You will need a piece of thick string or yarn about 9 or 10 inches long. You will tie 3 separate knots a couple inches apart as you recite the following before you tie each knot… so you will be reciting this 3 times..
“With this knot I seal this hex
you will not sleep, you will not rest
Knots of anger, knots of hate
Discord brings you to your fate
I tie this second knot makes two
Bringing darkness over you
Slander, discord, evil too
Bringing darkness straight to you
With this third knot, I do bind
Weaving chaos in your mind
Hex of anger, hex of hate
Bring him down, I will not wait”
So it be now made manifest!
As you do this spell be thinking of all the chaos that it is going to bring to your enemy and make sure you are worked up into a rage before doing the spell. This will make it all the more effective! When you are done see if you can hide this string (with the knots now tied) around you enemies home! This will make it more potent! If not then save it in a special place until you decide to untie the knots and give your enemy a second chance."
when i used that curse, i had no contact with my ex for a year. When we did have contact again i found out his mom died, and other bad things happened to him. Is that really what you want? You may think so now, but you may change your mind. The ex that i used this curse on was dating my best friend, and I was sure i wanted to use it. But things change, and now we are back together and i regret doing that. But no one cant make that decision for you, only you can do that yourself.
a better option may be a chant for swift justice against those who are at fault. Before using this, though, be sure you arent at fault becuase it will affect anyone in your life who is.
Some quick notes here: Chanting to a deity to ask them for help out of the blue without introducing yourself or having gotten to know them or given them any offerings is likely to come off as very rude. Much like asking a total stranger for a huge favor out of no where. It is also good to remember the threefold law is a belief. What this means is that though Wiccans follow this rede not all practitioners follow it or believe in it. Not everyone believes they will be punished for using magick in a harmful/malicious way.
Of course the threefold law is a belief. That's why we're all on this site, to learn from each other's beliefs and gain deeper spiritual knowledge. That's why we ask questions, research, listen and find the best path for ourselves.
Not one person has the same path and it's important to respect that. I offer information about the threefold law because I view sending out spiritual energy through the lens of a scientist. Energy can be measured. The threefold law is just a more magical way to say Newton's Third Law Of Motion. It's real. It can be repeated with the same results achieved again and again. if you throw a rubber ball at wall that ball is s gonna bounce back at you. But different people have different beliefs. We make our own choices about sending out energy. And with each of those choices, we accept whatever consequences come with them. Some believe three fold law, some believe seven times return, some believe karma, some believe they are immune from consequences.
I can witness and acknowledge that. Diversity is a much easier thing to talk about than to take action on. I would like to believe that on this site we are big enough to practice the magic that is diversity.
It would appear that you are attempting to quote Newton's third law which goes as follows, "For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction." So firstly, it states equal, not three or seven times. Secondly, science can be proven where magick cannot be. This is all up to interpretation and belief. Stating your belief as fact when it is not, is both rude and ignorant. It is fine to believe in something strongly and be very passionate about it. It is not however okay to preach your beliefs to be the gospel truth. Additionally, Newton's law states there is an oppisite reaction but not that it always comes back to the source. Using science to try to prove magick is foolish because it is not something that can be proven as it is a subtle force that can all be chalked up to coincidence in the first place.
Everybody. This is wrong regardless. What if he dies? Gets hurt? No matter what your " Three Fold " or more law stands for, your playing with someone's life. That is not logical or safe for ethier of you. Grow some balls and forgive him and move on. Or bless him. Or curse him, which, in theory, could fall back on you. It is your choice, nobody else's. And what you do with the power you have is up to you. Though, I would hate to see you post back that he died, or like the previous commenter that his mom died or something. Then, in theory, it is your turn to pay for what you do. And he won't feel pain anymore. He will start healing, while your suffering begins. Idiot. Belief or not, your choice or not, personal opinion or not, your only going going to end up hurting. Or hurting sonebody else. Don't play god. How many times have people told us this one simple warning?
My very first spell was revenge with Hekate,it worked wonderful! I did not introduce myself as it was new to me and my first rime. I was desperate. It was a more karmic spell as the person was being vengeful. Since then i have thanked her or acknowledged her daily. I have not asked for much of anything since. I did do a blood knot spell too. All under full moon, 3 days of spells and concentrations.i am very new at this and have much more to learn. Daily we light candles and pay respect to moon goddesses and others.
