Love Spells--Criticism

i wish my spells backfired like that. ;-p

By backfire they mean you were not confident enough in casting the spell or the effectiveness of the spell itself when you did it, or you did it wrong, could be minor or major so to speak, depending on what you did. If your spell depends on how much you beleive in it and you are worried whether its gonna work or not then how can you concentrate on focusing your intent?

Question on this...the soul mate spell...does it require a circle or any kind of protection? (new to this). Thanks!