While I can understand this, I can also understand the desire for personal change. I can use myself as an easy example. I have a terrible temper, and for the longest I used every excuse I could think of to not have to deal with that; it was always everyone else's fault that I was angry. Then I couldn't run any farther, and had to face myself. It has taken years to come as far as I have, and the work will never end to keep myself under control.
So yeah: I can understand someone wanting a bit of directed energy to help change a negative aspect of themselves. Even if such spells are considered fluff, it might be a confidence booster or something. When I started working on myself, I would have taken all the help I could get.
Does this spell work for changing one selfs own personality. I've reccently become very angry and mean towards everyone and I want to use a spell to make myself kinder. If not, does anyone have any spells that might help me? Thanks.
Personally I don't think this spell will work. It doesn't seem strong enough to have an affect and seems like it was wrote without much effort.
Also to help you I would recommend something else like meditation instead of a spell to calm you down. Perhaps even aura work, taking a break or just doing relaxing things. This would be a lot easier then using spells because you don't need much tools and there's a higher chance of you feeling better instead of getting frustrated. Overall I wouldn't recommend most spells that have high promises at a low cost like this one.
Anon, while a spell might help, you need to work on these problems. You've noticed your shortcomings, now ask yourself 'why'. Meditation and journaling can help you as well as talking to people [professional or friends] but you can change if you try. Is there a situation or person you get upset with more? When you notice yourself doing the behavior, stop, take a few deep breathes and evaluate the situation so you can learn. It's not easy, but coupling it with a spell can help you grow.
I think a spell to change someone's personality is as bad as casting a love spell on someone, you take away the free will of someone to develop their own personality. Like a love spell, once their free will is altered to how you want it to be, it will effect their life. Their personality is how they live their life and you are changing that. It will also effect you because whoever you cast this on will no doubt be someone you know. Even if it's over the internet. And the results of that can be harmful. I know people who casted love spells which is an example of what would happen if you change someone to your will and they've been stalked by the person they casted the spell on and feared for their lives. Not to mention that having this spell casted on you would be frightening. I also happen to know someone who had a spell like this casted on them and they got physical marks all over their body, they became obsessive, and overall not in control of their thoughts, impulses, and it was starting to escalate into their actions before they realized what was going on and reversed it.
