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Wait, but aren’t aerokinesis and pyrokinesis a thing??

Not really.

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Any type of -kinesis is impossible. Water bending, fire bending, air bending, earth bending, moving things with your mind, conjuring a fireball, lighting a candle from across the room, making rain disappear, calling down lightning in a specific place, and such is completely, 100%, without a shadow of a doubt, impossible.

Magic does not violate the laws of nature, physics, or biology. It is a manipulation of the universal energies around us to attain a specific goal, and even then that is a weird and bad definition. You are in essence asking the universe for a favor, not asking for its all-mighty power. I think that's clear?

Aerokinesis and pyrokinesis exist as concepts, but they aren't real. Witches work with the elements found in nature to find wisdom and balance in our own paths. We don't control them like in Avatar The Last Airbender. Some believe you can control the weather, but you would need a ton of energy to do this since you're affecting weather patterns and affecting the globe in the process.

I am not sure if this helps you or not, but I used o have a book:
Superhuman Training: A Guide to Unleashing Your Supernatural Powers By Mr. Chris Zanetti

To be honest I am not interested in those things so far, so I haven't read this, but it may help you.

Another way to help you is by connecting/binding/summoning/conjuring spirits that can help you. There is a site, creepy hollows, https://shop.creepyhollows.com/home.php that maybe can help you with the creatures which may help you. I mean, you may see the forum, the encyclopedia that this site has, and you can decide which type of spirit or creature can help you. Then it's up to you if you use your own magic/prayers/calls to summon that type of creature, or you may purchase a service from the site.
You may also listen to sublimanls!
However, there is always one thing that is up to you: practice and belief! Practice regularly and believe that you will make it!

No matter what you may read on some internet sites or in some, less than accurate, books, none of the forms of kinesis are real. People claim to have been able to do various types of kinesis, but no one has proved that their claims are real.

As others have already told you, it is possible to work with the essence of the Elements to aid in magical workings. That is solid magic based on the ancient Greek concept that everything was made up of the four Elements of Earth, Air, Fire, and Water. These are not physical elements, but the energies of the Elements. http://www.chm.bris.ac.uk/webprojects2002/tubb/elements.htm You can learn to work with these energies in your magic, such as in casting a circle by invoking the Elements.

But you cannot control the greater Elements, the actual energies of the Universe. You will not be able to summon a storm at will, or point a finger and have something burst into flame. That is the stuff of Hollywood and fantasy novels.

People frequently first come to magic because of something they have read, like the " Last Airbender ". So they have a mistaken idea of what magic can do. If you'd like to learn about real magic and begin learning how to practice it, I would recommend the book " Modern Magick" by Donald Michael Kraig . You can find it to read for free at http://www.sacred-magick.com/PDF.php?cid=6.256

Truely is tragic when professionals in name step on a helpful collegue yet ask the professor sometimes for the exact information and get the same answer, controlling elements is offensive and not possible, but possible to a much lower extent, is weilding such.

Kinisis is movement or motion which exists all around us from the undirected movement of a cell, organism, or part in response to and external stimulus to the range of mobility of the bones of the skull as in some birds and reptiles. This is where physics laws are demonstrated because nothing moves without energy behind it.

No one can control the elements physically or their essence however one can utilize their energy and as well as influence or manipulate them is minor ways. We are all made of energy and this energy encompasses us. Our energy, often referred to as our aura, is interacting with the energy around us in the universe. It can protect us from other energy as well as influence the energy from other sources. Like one person leading their energy to make another smile, we interact with and influence the energies surrounding us all the time. It may not be possible to start a fire out of thin air but with the right tools and applied physics a little bit of air may be what feeds the flames into existence.

I suggest meditation and the practice of moving energy in, around, and out of the body. Breath in the fresh air and inhale the new positive energy into your lungs, feel your blood increase in dissolved oxygen content rejuvenating all of your cells, carry that energy into all the corners of your body. Send it to your hands and fingertips, your legs and toes, even give your spleen some love. Push any negative energy out of the body through the bottoms of the feet or the root chakra if you are in lotus position. You can even breath out negative energy as well. Incense which is a representation of air and fire may help to guild you on your meditative journey.