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This is a good one that uses sound

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W5EsQZxem_4

Also... How do I find my element and other things like that?

I would meditate on it think of what elements you connect with for example for all my life I've loved fire enough to the point at bonfires my friends or family would leave me in charge of keeping the fire burning

There are multiple guided meditations on YouTube for aligning, balancing, and activating the chakras. You should check those out.

That would be earth. Although according to my sign (Scorpio) I'm a water sign. However I'm afraid of water.... I love the outdoors and trees and plants. Right now I have 32 plants in my home.

I'm also earth. Start with healing and basic plant spells then move up. Try some of the more dangerous spells like killing a plant which can be used to make people sick or bring them harm if you know how. Also grow a tree an oak or whatever suits you and use it as a test subject for your growing spells. Flow you energy into it. Make it grow and maybe at some point you'll stumble across the spell I have to turn a plant you raised into a familiar. It's awesome! Goodluck to you bud and be safe!

Thanks so much for the advice!!!! One more question.. My aura... How do I see that or can anyone else see mine from my picture. I think I seen it but would like to make sure.

Go to the search bar in the spell section type in "aura seeing" or such and it will pull up guides. Some people do it quickly others can't. I personally have trouble seeing people's because I'm an empath(please dont ask me how to become one you really cant become a good real one your just kind of born with it and refine it) which means I feel auras and read them kind of like brail of the mind/ auras. I can influence people by twisting there aura allowing me to change their emotions. An empath can always sense someone's emotions and characteristics by just being near them. Go look up info on seeing auras and read on it too some people have really light or clear auras which makes them hard to read so be wary of that.

well to charge chakras or to align them you can meditate and feel each chrakara vibrate outward and feel each one from the crown chakra connect with energy line down to the third eye chakara to the heart chakara to the center, then to the naval chakara down to the feet chakara, I would suggest in your mind while doing these things go through a portal door way it could be a gate way or a arch way then go to a place that's your happy place filled with the warm sunlight upon your face perhaps clouds flowers or a bright forest wherever you feel happy, this charges your chakaras and keeps you more grounded. Also feel a energy of light after you align them surround you like a blanket or a sheet of energy this helps charge your aura. The aura is important to it protects you from dark energy and keeps you positive. Anyways that's all for now, you should or could go to a shaman or yoga instructor to help you align your chakaras and keep your aura filled with energy.

one more thing keeping a type of crystal that's the color of green helps charge or heal your heart chakara.