From everything you've provided it only sounds like a band-aid. You may want to try to call him and see if you can sort things out? Communication is the key in any relationship. Failure to communicate clearly will always result in a breakdown of a relationship. The same goes for withholding info from one another even if in belief it's for the better good.
I analysed your spells and these are my suggestions:
the first spell is very badly written and it's dynamics are quite bad; if it worked for you it is only because of your focused will. However, I see it has indicator properties, so if it worked, that means that there is still some love left in this relationship. The second one is a domination spell by nature and is intrusive by energy dynamics. However, the second spell has an initial effect that acts as a banishing, because the mind of the target is trying to get rid of the intrusion. On the other hand, after a period of time, the energetic immunity gets accustomed to the energy of the spell and lets it in so the effects of the second spell should be visible long after it is cast; that's why the spell should be kept and repeated periodically.
Thank you for your advise. Our reason was not because of a misunderstanding..in a way. We still love each other. But he needs to address a situation where we both were manipulated into. That is why I only wanted to make him think of me and what we had...in the hope that he will soon find his way back to me. I'm afraid to use any spell beyond that as forcing him or his free will might as I am worried about the consequences. I just wanted to enhance or focus on what he already has to start with --- love.
I just need for him to make that emotion stronger that he would make a stand for us. He has a child from his ex that he loves dearly. We were manipulated into that situation that it's either being with the child and living with her or he loses the child permanently.
I don't know what else to do as I am afraid casting another spell might make it worse.
Thank you so much for the reply as I badly need to understand all these.
I read somewhere that upon casting a spell and it worked, that if you repeat it, it would negate or neutralize the first one. The first spell I've cast was the 1st spell (to make him miss me) and it only involved chanting the spell every morning. Then I followed it up with the 2nd spell to make him think of me. I did another spell to return a lover back but then I felt something was not right and immediately undid the spell. The next day, I got a phone call from him telling me he has been thinking of me all day. Then the next day, I made the mistake of chanting the spell to make him miss me but realized what I did so I tried to undo it. It took awhile but within 24 hrs. I got successive e-mails from him to the point of getting close again. Then yesterday, I woke up and made the mistake again ( I know...) and tried to undo it. This time, I mispronounced a word but had the same context or meaning --- pronounced perverse instead of pervert. Then I tried to undo that as well. Last night, I came across another spell to undo a spell. It has been about 24 hrs since he e-mailed then. 3 hrs after that, I got an e-mail from him again.
Yes, there is definitely still love in us as we broke up due to external factors that we were manipulated into.
Any suggestions that you think may be able to harness all that love in him to make a stand for us and bring him back to me? Like I have told Xerces, I do not want to manipulate his mind...only to cultivate what is already in there to begin with so he can make his way back to me.
...and to Xerces and Lightbarer,
I really thank you for the help...
Also I want to ask...maybe it's just me or maybe there's something else, I don't know how to express it but I think I can actually feel when the emotion or bond gets strong or weak as when I casted a spell, I felt some intense emotion within but when I did the mistake, I felt it weakened and when I undid the spell, I felt a strong emotion again.
Would you have an idea on what it is?
Hi Ethereally,
I saw your last post and thought i might give my opinion. I think that when two people truly love each other there is a powerful bond created between the two people. The mistake you did could have altered the way he felt for you and thus lead the the weakening of the bond. But when you undid your mistake the bond strengthen because his altered emotions returned to normal.
Hi Yoshinights,
Thanks for the input..
Yes, that would make sense. There is a strong bond existing undeniably. But so far, it is being overcome by fear caused by the situation.
I don't know how to make the bond between us stronger that he would be able to hold on to what we have.
I believe that in your case you created something similar to a blocked condition. I feel strongly that you overcrowded the bond between you and your beloved with different magickal energies. A spell, if it works, does not negate the effects of a previous successful spell cast, save it be a reversal. However, even if it reversed, all magick leaves a trace; weaker, or stronger, but it always does (it's like when you clean your house; no matter how well you clean it, there will always be something that remains). Then, if in such a condition, the system that is being influenced (in this case, the relationship) gets confused by various energies and strained, thus not responding well to other spells.
It is fairly simple; give it a rest, then try a spell that you feel best works and stick to it. If it stops working- give it time to recover, then try again with a different one after a week.
Thank you so much for the advice... I will follow that.
So far I have not attempted anything in the fear that I might push him further away. He seems to be responding positively so far and I am hoping he will find his way back to me eventually --- hopefully soon.
Hi everyone...
It's me again.
Question --- so far, the spell has worked until yesterday as my ex has been e-mailing me daily. Although it has been 24 hrs since I last got an e-mail from him, I'm not sure of whether to do the same spell again or not to restrengthen it. In 2 weeks we will be hopefully working together and I hope things will be better by then as we will be in constant sight of each other.
Any ideas? Should I repeat the spell or should I just wait and see if he has not communicated?
