Not everyone believes in the three fold "law." It's best that you just leave him to his business and move on with your life. Even if he comes back to you, he will likely cheat on you again.
I too find myself in almost the same situation as you and it breaks my heart to know that my husband of 30 years has been bedding someone whom I had thought was a "friend"!
I have always believed that my husband and I were soul-mates, that we are supposed to be together. Both he and his whore (sorry for the foul language!) are aware that I know of their relationship. I have told my husband that I'm not "okay" with him doing this and I believe that he has not only betrayed me with his lies but he has also betrayed our children by lying to them about "their" relationship.
Both my husband and I are survivors of long term child abuse/neglect; his was physical abuse at the hands of his father mine was sexual abuse starting with my step-father when I was 6 and lasted for 12 years. It took me many years of individual therapy, regression therapy, Chakra Meditation, White Light Meditation among many other things to get me to the place that I am now. Finally at peace, knowing that I am strong and a survivor! My husband has finally decided to start therapy for his issues, and it is for that reason that I have chosen to stay even though I know he is unfaithful and currently has no intention of cutting off the contact with the other woman.
I have consulted my Tarot Cards many times since "confirming" (I had suspicions, but not the cold hard proof) and each time my card tell me that I need to be strong, steady, show patience, and stay positive. I believe that my husband is going through a mid life crisis and this along with his past trauma has manifested into this mess that we now find ourselves in. My hope/wish is that my husband will see this other woman for the devious, manipulative, treacherous, deceitful person that she is. Once that veil is lifted from her face and her true colors are shown I believe my husband will be able to travel farther down his path of recovery.
I know that she is all of these things because she has IM'd me on facebook with some of the most foulest comments! I know that they are already starting to fight and argue because my husband won't "rub" their affair in my face and let her come to OUR house. I know that she is still lying to her HUSBAND about sleeping with my husband. And I know that she has made "threats" to my husband about telling people at work about my past abuse to "embarrass" me so that I will quit my job!
So, I'm looking to develop a spell or find one that has already been used to "assist" in lifting that veil from her. But, before I try to fully expose her I will be doing a complete cleansing and purification of our house (yes, there were some very heated arguments before I was finally able to come to this point!) and I am in the process of making protection talismans for every member of my family.
I wish you the best of luck with your situation and I hope that everything works out for the best for you!
Please take care of yourself! Take no action if you have just found out about this affair... You need time to grieve, cry, scream, go for long walks if you need to. But right now you need to think with a CLEAR HEAD AND HEART before you take any action!
3 fold law? The 3 fold can vary lets say on scale of one to ten as in the bible. How about not taking responsibility to forgive, try to get counseling if it is needed, meaning, you do not plan on doing any spiritual work to get your husband back. Especialy if there are children involved. My heart goes out to you and as hard as it may seem, try to stay positive through the process. you know, the law of attraction. positivity attracts positivity. raising your vibration is an amazin way to stay positive. i feel enlightened just talking to you about it. if you have studied the basics then if i were you i would research break-up jars, sweet jars, cutting soul ties and freezer spells. Remember, majick cannot take away somebodies free will, it can only enhance feelings that are already there.
@ fenrir, while i don't believe in true love as it is presented in society, he could be. as humans, we crave certain things out of life, being denied something will cause us to seek it from somewhere else. i know people who have broken up and gotten together again after many years, or people who function better in open relationships. theres also many psychological reasons why people [men especially] cheat. he could love her, but is following attraction and lust. he might still love her, he might not, you don't know.
aradia, there are spells you can use to get him back, but i recommend first looking within yourself. you may still love him, but if he was miserable [for example] is it right to force him to stay to make yourself happy? try couple counselling, ask him to go to a couple sessions to see if anything can be worked out. if not, then part ways, but be civil about, for everyones sake. life is full of meetings and partings. i had a pretty major heartbreak 5 years ago which was a blessing in disguise, not only was it a bad relationship, but the same day i was asked out by my current boyfriend [we didn't actually go out until several months later, but still] try your best, but if something is over, you should not and cannot fight it, it isn't good for anyone involved.
do a divination to see if theres something left. if he still cares, try a banishing spell on her, and a love spell on him [say a honey jar] then ask him to do couples counselling. good luck, blessed be.
I still have believe I what the guy said about a native man from west Africa,I remember when I was having problem with my husband, just because the doctors in UK said I can conceieve a child again,my husband cheated on me and abandoned me. I post my problem on this forum and someone refer me to a native spiritual doctor who solved my problem instantly and told me that it was a spiritual attack and did not even charge me a dime. He told me nothing is impossible for his oracle.. my husband are I are reunited and also having a kid now.
