asexuality

Amen to that one!

If you loved him, you wouldn't want to take away his sexuality, which is a very beautiful, natural and important aspect of every human, even if you can't understand it. You'd be better off searching for a cure for your asexuality.

If a person doesn't have a problem with it, why does it need to be "cured"?

If you do not want to have sex but have a boyfriend who does, maybe you should talk things over. If no one budges, then you should probably reconsider the relationship. Sex without a real consent won't serve you any good emotionally, and he might end up hurting you or dumping you on the long run.

Do not force unto this. It should be respect and mutual consent.

I completely agree with Samandiriel. Also, why would you do that to someone? That's selfish and in very bad taste as well as karma.

I apologize if my comment was taken wrongly. I see I spoke rashly and unwisley. A man should always respect his lover. But its been said; Marriage witout sex is lifeless, sex withou marriage is meaningless. Sexuality is how love is shared, not just some form of enjoyment. Its a delicate situation. Hopefuly you both will be willing to work with each other. If he loves you he'll wait, if you love him you'll be willing to work with him. Thats what I should have said.

Amen to that. Although, I disagree that a marriage without sex is meaningless, - that may be true for you but it is not an axiom.
Any kind of 'love spell' will probably make any relationship empty and painful. There are ways to treat asexualism, if that is desired, including herbs, yoga, and gentle, patient, physical contact with love. Conclusively, I would argue that a marriage without love is meaningless. Blessed be.

Just give him what he wants, but make it romantic, put candles all around, and more.

What are your reasons for being asexual? Your root and or sacral chakra is usually out of balance in situations like this. My friend was molested and she turned asexual and that effected her sacral chakra and because she never dealt with it her emotional pain formed into physical pain and she started having lower back pain. She found out her sacrum was out of place/alignment and had to see a chiropractor. My point is if this is the case when you are ready to you should deal with the situation if you wait it can cause more pain. I hope this was of some help I wish you luck and hope you find the right answer :D

I find it rather offensive that everyone here is treating aesexuality as some sort of disorder, when it is in fact simply an orientation. Telling someone that they need to 'cure' it is comparable to telling someone who is homosexual that they need to be 'cured'. I just thought I should point this out as some of you appear to be severely lacking in empathy.