I would suggest a cleasning of some sort right after. That's a lot of bad karma even if it's justified or not and watch out if she practices the craft, she may be protected. This is why to be very careful.
Just wanting to give a little bit of an update: So today I decided to do the mirror box (took a while to find mirrors oddly enough) and followed one set of guidelines I found online where you put something of hers (all I have is her picture) and herbs to keep her away. I decided, probably incorrectly, that while I was doing it I could add in some binding work. Lit the black candle, made the box which is difficult to do without looking, then placed it in the middle of a pentagram of black candles. They were just simple birthday candles - I've used them dozens of times before.
Then it got a bit weird. The flames grew to almost 4 inches tall and began crackling. It almost seemed like the candles were fighting against what was happening. When the candles died down in about half the time they normally take, I went outside and buried it where all my old pets are (thought about it and I trust them more than random people at the cemetery, not to mention it seems a bit disrespectful to me but that's just my opinion)then came back inside. Walking in, I could see my vinegar jar's candle was going crazy. The flame actually turned white. Vinegar started popping out from under the lid. Had to take it outside to make sure that if it exploded, at least it wouldn't be everywhere. The candle died down in the span of 20 minutes as opposed to the usual two hours it takes. Broke off all the wax sealing it in.
I'm assuming the mirror box had something to do with the jar. Just seems a bit too much for it to be a coincidence. I'll have to start a new jar tomorrow.
And I've been doing the cleansing too. My house smells wonderful.
Wow. Your results are remarkable. Mine are much more subtle than that unless it is a debauchery but it doesnt sound to me like thats what you've had. I am wiccan and always bind my spell by stating, "with harm to none so mote it be" a phrase that can be found in both wicca and made for public knowledge freemasonry. And i mean it. Having loki and sigyn for dieties has taught me to be patient for my enemies to learn their lessons as i do mine.
I might need to look into that. I didn't add in anything peaceful when I was doing this work. I worked myself into one of those domineering modes where every other word seemed to be a command. She will obey me, her magic will turn upon her, etc. Thinking back, maybe the high flames were just a subtle way of telling me to tone down. I know the jar was filled with nearly pure hatred though. Fuming mad, shaking, cursing it, constantly saying, "I hope you feel this." That I'm surprised didn't explode the first day.
If you don't know who did it, then this spell probably won't work. Cleanse and protect, perhaps say a chant to return the negative energy back to the person, but if you don't know who, just cleanse and move on. If it happens again, cleanse and protect again, but observe those around you the person who cursed you will be different. If you loose while they suddenly gain [money, grades, praise] or seem to be having bad luck [sometimes karma hits at the same time] or they seem to carry/ware something homemade or a drawstring bag when they didn't before, they could point to foul play. Of course don't jump to conclusions, if you have a suspect, do a divination or two to be sure. If your paranoia gets the better of you, you could face some negative energy.
I you use a reversing candle with reversing oil and put the picture of her underneath the candle to add more strength to it if you can get some blackberry leaves and crush them inside the candle that way what she sends to you goes back to her also add a road opener candle to unblock what she has caused in your life to be undone and open the path for you.I do have a return to sender spell but I wont tell because it seams your out for revenge instead of justice and that I will not let it be used for
