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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Yes I did She guessed something with a teachear talkin rude with her
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 8
Well..you have to ask yourself, do you trust your girlfriend's word over rumors from random people?

Now if you do trust her.. then stay with her, just be a little more... observative, and keep an eye on her, if it turns out she is cheating.. then break up.

If you DONT trust her enough your probably in deep crap anyways, trust is very important in a relationship so... if you cant trust her then you might wanna break up anyways, or talk to her.

If you DO talk to her about it.. heres a tip, dont get angry or upset right away.. you need to be serious about the situation and show her you REALLY want the truth wether it's bad or good.

Hope helps some xD
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 9
"Shopping around"? This isn't the super market.

IF and I do mean IF the story behind her crying is actually true ( god love he said she said )...

Your friend probably gives her the attention and KIND of attention that she actually wants.

You love her, and that's all fine and good..but what do you do for her?

Basically...either she's just "that" kind of girl ( which I doubt if she's crying about it ) or you aren't doing something for her and she's seeking attention from anyone else that will give it.
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 10
Lol, but you cant just give him the "IF it's true"

Thats just gonna make him look at it from the bad point of view.

Theres a very good chance it's all just rumors and she really does love and want only you, so dont be rash to assume the worst until you know the truth...

Believe me i have assumed the worst right away and it doesnt work so good, then she might just leave you for being "over protective" or something of the such.

Trust me, find out the truth first and figure out wether you trust her enough or not to stick through it with her.
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 11
WAIT!!!

I have the best solution of all. It's an ooooooold magickal secret...

Walk up to her and say:

" I heard this that and the other...if it's true...we need to talk so we can work it out and do what's best for us both "

Man I'm smart.
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 12
lol Healer.
Yes I agree, you dont need a spell for everything in your life, I mean you live you learn. If your g/f is doing that to you, move on and find someone else, that will treat you right. Yeah yeah its hard, blah blah blah, been there done that, but something better will come along if she doesnt want to be with you. You say you are still in school, something gives me a feeling that you will go through many many more situations that are probably worse than this. So talk to her and get the truth and if she doesnt wanna be with you then bye bye. Girls like to have a lil chase sometimes. And as soon as you dont want her she is going to want you. It always seems to happen like that lol..
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 13
hey thanks 4 te acorded atentin and thanks 4 the friendly chatin Thanks alot you realy helped me Thanks again
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 14
For once, I disagree with Zaet. You have to do what feels right to you, Ape. Sidonus has good advice if you want to keep her, and from your post it sounds like you do, but if you really don't want her at least let her down easy. Some girl's won't tell the truth about why they are upset not because they don't trust you or don't want you to know, it's because they are afraid of how you'll react or worried that it will upset you. If she really loves you then do you really think she'd tell you about every other guy she has a crush on? Do you tell her about every girl you have/had a crush on?
I've been through this with my fiance a few times when we were first going out, over time I learned to tell when she wasn't telling the whole truth about why she was upset and now she's learned their's no point in hiding it from me once I realize something is wrong. I'm sure if you stick with her things could go the same way. It's just a matter of whether or not you really want to be with her.
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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Post # 15
Well..why not talk it out. Magick does NOT fix all the problems in the world. Nor will it ever. So talk to her. Yeah magick makes life easier but what do you gain if you did a love spell? So if talking it out doesn't work then well you will have to break up. Why have a relationship with someone when the other person is upset about it? This is just my two cents worth :P
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Re: Help me please PERSONAL!!
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first and foremost, there should be no trials like a girl flirting with another just for her to know if her boyfriend realy love her. true or not it would definitely touch the ego of the other. Trust is certainly needed, hence this is one of the basic foundation for love affair aside from of course you love each other. i dont believe in an abrupt decision such as dumping at the time you've heard such issues. you guys have to talk things out.
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