That's because unlike what was said ,somewhere above, curses..real ones..effect you whether or not you believe in them and would still effect you whether or not you're still communicating with your ex's family.
I think you may have a malicious spirit following you around..either on it's own or because it was told to.
Just do what everybody said above. It should work either way.
Ne, that family is going to be in big trouble! If you hit/hurt someone you get bad karma, but if you hex, the three fold law bites back hard! Do what they said above, and remember, those who cast a cruel spell done out of anger or malice suffer much more than the one the spell is cast on. :)
oke oke first caaaalm down everything will be oke :) first you ned to do is to stop curse from doing you any harmso you need to banish evil
1)from your house
2)yourself
do banish in center of house saying aloud :"
Jam tibi impero et præcipio maligne spiritus! ut confestim allata et circulo discedas, absque omni strepito, terrore, clamore et foetore, asque sine omni damno mei tam animæ quam corporis, absque omni læsione cujuscunque creaturæ vel rei; et ad locum a justissimo tibi deputatum in momento et ictu oculi abeas; et hinc proripias. Then on every door, window or :"hole" in a wall draw little triangle with numbers on side 741 on left, 852 right and 963 top of triangle. now your house is clean like FOREVER :D
2)
Wondering magic bring to me, In this life the luck I need, So all my angles can be seen, And thus fulfill my every dream, Combined earth and fire, Bring forth my hearts desire, Guardians of the sea, Keep all harm from me.
3) now pay back you should consider some reverse spell! like this http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/weather_spells/fire_spells/5146/page.html
blessed be! :)
oh yes, yes on the other hand you can skip on 3) couse if you have any curse on yourself you will back from where it come :) and in that way you will be cleaned theen you can do house protect so they cant fight back i little reconsider :P
This will break the curse that they have given you.
In a sachet, combine the following herbs: St. John's Wort, sage, calamus and dragonsblood powder. Set the sachet aside for later. Fill an incense brazier with dragonsblood incense. On your altar, you will need an athame, a whole ripe lemon, 1 white and 1 black candle, a bowl of salt and a bowl of water. You will also need a glass or ceramic plate to set the lemon on when you are done. Do not use paper or wood.
Light the candles and the incense. Hold the lemon in both hands and visualize it magnetized and drawing the negative spell away from you. Dip your athame in the water then slice the lemon into three pieces. Set the athame aside and visualize the lemon drawing the negativity away from you and into the pulpy fruit. Repeat the following:
As sour as this lemon be
Charged and cut in pieces three
With salt and water I am free
Uncross me now, I will it be.
Let this lemon do it's task
It's cleansing power I do ask
As this lemon dries in air.
Free me from my dark despair.
Uncross! Uncross! I break his curse.
But let not my simple spell reverse.
I wish no ill, nor wish him pain
I wish only to be free again.
Take each lemon slice and dip it in the salt, making sure it is well coated. Set the slices back on the altar and say:
As it is my will, so mote it be!
Leave the lemon pieces on the altar where they can dry. Once dry the spell is complete and the lemon can be thrown away or buried. If however the fruit rots instead, you must repeat the spell. While waiting for the fruit to dry, keep the sachet with you at all times. It will help to protect you from the effects of the spells and turn away any negativity sent in your direction.
I would just like to add that no matter how crappy your life seems, it does not mean that someone put a curse on you. They could have but then does that mean every good person that has a bad life had a curse put on them?
It still will not hurt to try a cleansing or banishment of negativity. However magic is rarely the culprit of such things. Just the trauma you went through could be helping to pull negativity towards you. If all else fails, delve into your own mind. If your holding on to anything negative from the past it can cause you such misfortune. Letting go is a bit harder then people make it seem, but it can be done. Your not alone sweetie :)
Every ones suggestions is all good and I think that you should also do not take revenge for your self let karma work it self. Olso remember that what ever you or them sends out it will come back 3x worst than before. Do not take revenge just do good luck spells and charms. Do good things for your self and family that will might out may change the curse.