ok all of you. i am a GUY

I get that a lot too with my username. People think I am a female. The thing is, this site isn't a dating site so who cares if you are male or female? If someone specifically messes up your sex, just politlely correct them or ignore it.

Nouveau my profile picture is of a guy also. it was when his band used to dress up like girls.

So, you have a male dressed as a female on your profile...

Shouldn't that say something as to why everyone seems to think you are a female?

Anywho, I personally have been called a man many many times on this site. I honestly don't care because I know what my gender is, and it doesn't bother me to have my gender confused really because well, to be honest I don't feel gender matters all that much. So what? Someone called you she instead of he, it's just language, it's just words.

Not everyone looks at profiles, and not everyone looks at forums, so this little complaining fest that you aren't a female is totally useless. If people don't read your profile, what makes them read your forum post?

I would also like to add that Sabata ends with an a, and many female names end with a's, whereas male names end with o's (in Spanish at least).

When interacting with others online you should know that there will be issues of gender confusion at some point, and that it will probably happen again, unless males pick very masculine names and pictures and act very masculine, whereas females do the same with feminine names, pictures, and actions/words.

Personally, I'm gonna keep doing what I've always done, act how I wish to, use names that have great meaning to me regardless of gender, and use pictures I love and can identify with. ;)

well Neo i happen to like my name here. both of them. and my profile does say my actual first name here.

It doesn't make you any less of a male if random people who are sitting behind a computer screen think that you are a female.

Unless you are that insecure about your gender associated identity in which case no amount of people you try to convince that you are male is going to fix that little psychological glitch.

I've been called a female more times than i can count. It's nothing to get upset over. Girls tend to be a bit more mature anywho.

im not insecure about my gender.

Then why did you make this post? If you're not insecure there really was no need to make this.
I can understand if you're upset but if that's the single reason as to why this post was made then it seems pointless to even have made it.

Well not everyone looks on profiles. And I also tought you were female because of your name and picture. People will always confuse it unless you change the pic and name.

i'm sorry everyone. i shouldn't have flipped out on you all.