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[quote] Nodrk,

I thought I was in your position not very long ago,I was crazy about this person,and I knew she was me,that I had no doubt of.However there were things that bothered me,Where you said"She's very busy with work which I can understand. But
if you like someone, wouldn't you want to spend time
with them even for just a few hours if you're working
the next day? " could have easily been me saying it.I got so preoccupied with what I thought was a problem,that I stopped seeing what was really there,and that was the time and energy that was being put into our relationship by her.I was so focused on the one tiny area that bothered me,I couldnt see the many other areas where she was going above and beyond,just for me.It almost caused me to loose.Im still not perfect,but now I try to keep in mind the many things she does,she normally wouldnt do if it wasnt for me,and the extra effort that goes into her doing it.I know you wanted a spell to do this,but I have to agree,if you step back and really look,you may be able to take care of this without loosing your woman,and without magick.After all,you can always try using magick later on.Just my 2 cnts [/quote]

I can see your point, as a female friend of mine
has also told me this today.

Thing is, I've only seen her twice really (3rd time
doesn't really count) in 3 weeks.

I sent her a text thanking her for her help with
my friend as she got her a deal on a product from
her company.

I also told her that I really respected her as that
was the first time I really got to see what she does
in life and that I hoped she had a good day.

I have not heard back from her yet.

Is this a bad sign?? Who knows, but I guess all I
can do now is leave her alone and give her space.

It sucks as I want to spend more time with her. I'm
busy too, but am willing to put in the time. Heck, we
haven't even been intimate yet.


TheHealer82, I did send you a private message

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Honey, i'm going to be frank. When a girl is into you, you'll know it. She'll make herself available; she'll be responsive.

Yes, some women (and men too) give mixed signals, some play hard to get, but even if this is the case, you don't want that in a mate, do you? You want someone straight-up about their feelings, someone mature.

Take a step back, give it a few days, meditate on clarity, and then see how you feel.

Best of luck.