What can help me? Please?

Say if your in a situation where you are a little nevous e.g a new job and you really want to be calm, cool + collected what would help do that? And also something that brings down your barriers a bit and can help you act more like yourself - like how you are at home with family and friends. I just started work in an office, i'm shy anyway around people i don't really know well. Please help??

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I would say if your a beginer or new to spells, something like a confidence spell might help. However, a true way to over come shyness is not magickal, but rather mundane(ordinary). Although I can't say that there is any true method to go the mundane way, just simply gaining confidence in yourself and your abilities will work you out of your shyness.

Hope this helps,
Glim

I'd have to agree doing things the mundane way... I rarely use magic(k) in real life. I prefer to do things on my own.

The only times I use magic(k) is if I feel like experimenting or if I feel like I need to renew a protection spell for either me or someone else.

they're right hun, magick isnt the solution to every problem, try some stress techniques that calm you down:

for instance:

breathing in for 5 seconds...1..2..3..4..5..and breathing out for 3..2..1..and repeat that for a while, it makes you mellow

you can also try practising what you are going to say in front of a mirror it always helps with confidence, like speaches, or interviews with jobs.

be yourself, if people dont like you, their loss, try to be happy and bubbly and friendly, your attitude will rub off on them.

also there is a thing called the law of attraction, what you think of gets attracted to you for example:

"i want friends" keep thinking this and this will attract positive helpful people to you, but this can backfire for example:

"i dont want to be bullied no more" although you are thinking in a good way, you are using the key word "bullied" meaning you will get bullied same as if you are thinking:

"i hope the dont get annoyed at me in work" this will attract people to get annoyed at you, instead think this:

"i hope they like me" as this will make them positive, thats why people always tell you to be optamistic, if you tell yourself you will fail, you will most of the time.

Try a little confidence booster spell.
Carry a piece of carnelian, it has powers tieing in to business success.

Agreed..no magick needed here!!!
I dont know you but I do know this...you are a shining star....now go out there and shine...some people will like you some people will not, some people will love you,some will hate you...but you are a shining star and be true to yourself and NEVER sell yourself short for you are the only you there is....a one of a kind master piece....now get to work and shine on you crazy diamond!!!

thank you!!

i would recommend buying some 'emergancy essence' its a hebal product by dr. bach i hink his stuff is very famous and it worked for me when i started a new job a while back. :D hope this helps