Seeing Realtiy

I have a situation with a lover who is married, but seperated. He has been trying to get back with her & says he loves her. The have two young girls. What i'm seeing is that he is used to having her & the girls around & is lonely without them, NOT that he really loves her (atleast not as much as he thinks). Also, I believe his wife is taking advantage of him, so she could go out with friends or family & have him home all the time to watch the girls & for the use of his computer.

I'm looking for a way for him to actually see reality and the way things are. Basically for him to open his eyes & take a good look around.

Can anyone help with this?

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try a good smack to the back of the head yet?


lol, some of you may laugh, but my mom did this to a friend of the family and it worked.