hi can anyone help me My partner and i are having problems and he says he has a lot of resentment against me but does come and see me and talks to me i was wondering if there is a spell that i can cast to get rid of resentment and something that will bring us closer.
Free will , it is considered morally wrong to interfere with someones free will, try talking through the situation and what might have contributed towards it. spells are not needed try communication good old fashion way of doing things .
There may not be a spell that I would recomment, but there is a particular stone that works wonders if worn or held by the person. The stone is called Laramar or Illyrium "hence my name" The stone is said to have magical properities that include the dissolution of negative energy, clear communication channels allowing one to communicate more clearly and openly, and is also said to help balance or open the throat chakra which also deals in communication. Anyway that is my personal suggestion, and I use it myself and it works wonders speaking out of personal experience.
While a spell might do the trick, the key in a romantic relationship is communication. Get your partner to open up and truly express what is bothering them, so you can move past such problems.
I would also find out why he is feeling this resentment. That would be the key to the problem. You need to know the source of a problem before successfully treating it. Just like an illness, if you only treat the symptoms, the illness itself is not addressed or healed. Emotions are the same way. Just removing his resentment will only be a bandaid that will work temporarily until the cause manifests in a new way.
Once you find out the "why?" concerning his resentment, the solution may be totally simple. Perhaps it's something you do that you're not aware of. It's important not to become defensive when he answers why he feels this resentment. Understand that these are his emotions and he is sharing (which is good). Instead of becoming defensive, instead ask "what can we do to resolve this?" Listen openly.
Magick can be used to help the two of you to be more flexible and positive. But the spell should be on BOTH. If he is feeling resentment, he is not "the problem", whatever is causing this resentment is. A good relationship is not about one or the other getting their way, but about compromise and working together to solve problems.
Hello once again to everyone and thankyou for the advise. I have tried talking to him and he closed himself off he wont talk to anyone or any of his friends. I have begged him to get his Aura and chakara which helped a great deal for the first time in 4 months after the healing he bought home chocolate for me and opened up I feel that now things will start although all through this time I had been lighting candles for him and I. Thankyou so much everyone once again.
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Re: relationship By: lindacash420 Moderator / Adept
Post # 9 Sep 15, 2011
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Oloriogboni, can you also cast a spell for me too, please? The love of my life and I are no longer living together (his choosing) and he is so full of resentment towards me, its unbearable. I would like to bring him closer to me and make him to love me again without any 'barriers' or outside influences from family or friends. We were together for 11 years and living together for 10. He has gone with the outside influences in his life to make his decisions which is why I'm living with his hateful resentment issues and being away from him. Can you truly help me? I'm 57 years old and know that he is the one for me.
