You can not force someone to be closer than they choose to be. It will cause massive problems for both of you. I would suggest working to make yourself more accepting to love in your life.
it is possible to attract a particular person but you'll be in for a headache. as well, it may not be permanent, so it will wear off unless you constantly redo the spell.
faith isn't something you can teach or force someone to have. you either have faith, or you don't have faith.
Re: How do I have Faith? By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 6 Jun 11, 2012
Perhaps because the law of attraction isn't specific. Like attracts like, not I like this particular thing so it comes to me. That is not the law of attraction but direct influencement/manipulation.
When using the law of attraction, we attract general energy to us. For instance "love" will cause others to show more affection. Not one specific person, not all people, but anyone that is susceptible to picking up and being "attracted" to the energy because they themselves have a caring side to them. It provokes that side of people IF they embrace that side of them.
The majority of spells that do not work are spells that are done incorrectly due to the lack of full understanding of the concepts being used.
Re: How do I have Faith? By: Hollabaluru / Knowledgeable
Post # 8 Jun 11, 2012
You must trust yourself, and that what you are doing is truthful - that there is truth in your actions. If you cannot find the truth in what you are doing, then you will find lies, and you cannot perform magick on lies.
Lets get back to the trust. If you trust in what you are doing, then you will believe that what you are doing is in a sense right, or rather believable (in this case). If you do not trust in what you are doing, you will be filled with doubt, and your spell will most likely not work (not to mention you may forget the spell half way through because your conscience is screaming it's doubts too loudly).
Trust yourself, find the truth in what you are doing. Sweet and simple.
Re: How do I have Faith? By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 9 Jun 11, 2012
Love forced through magick is as good as pretending...it isn't genuine.
Such things are temporary and usually backfire, not because they're bad, but because they're artificial. You're messing with someone's emotions and thoughts, then your influence goes away and one of two things happen. They get a sudden shock of reality that is extreme and causes them to behave in the opposite way on impulse or they accept it as a natural part of themselves and can become obsessive with it. That all depends on will power and personality.
Directly influencing other's is best used when you only need one time, temporary effects. Not only is it easier but it also leaves no trace.
If you like a girl and you're set on using magick, I suggest carrying/wearing a rose quartz, put on your best smile, bring her a single red rose, and ask her out. If you need further confidance, you can charm the rose to increase your success of her saying yes to a date. Then it will be just you and her (no influencial magick) from there.
