Hiya all. I'm looking for a spell to help me get over someone in a romantic way, but he's my best friend, and neither of us want to lose that part of our relationship. Do I cast a strengthening of friendship spell?
Re: Spell to keep a friendshi By: Arckhebohn / Novice
Post # 3 Jul 09, 2012
Though I have the same problem in a bit different way: I love that person but because she is the only person - and I mean it - in my life who keeps me "alive" and she's got a boyfriend I can't tell her that I love her. She might never love me - or at least that's what I think - but we spend a lot of time together and it's not so easy to just love somebody who is so close to you yet she doesn't love you..
Re: Spell to keep a friendshi By: Vanitys_Fire / Knowledgeable
Post # 4 Jul 09, 2012
The working of the friendship between you two should not be done through a spell; not in my opinion, at least. Since you two want the friendship to stay and very strong, why use a spell to do what you two can do on your own? If you want it then work for it. You will feel much better about it by working on it with him. And even if you did a spell to strengthen your friendship with him, you two will still have to work for it. It's not just going to happen with the only effort being a spell.
Arckh, if you love her yet she is with some one then do the right thing and let her be with him and be happy. If it's truly meant that you two are to be together then Fate will have its way of bringing you two togethep, but I'm not saying not to put effort into it. However, presently, it may or not be a good idea to go ahead and tell her how you feel. That choice is up to you. Just think it through and be aware of the many possibilities before you make your decision.
Re: Spell to keep a friendshi By: Arckhebohn / Novice
Post # 5 Jul 09, 2012
Yeah I know that I shouldn't tell her that's why I haven't done it yet. The thing is that she is not quite happy with him and the only thing I can do is hear the problems they have..and yet they still together. As somebody who knows a runes, they told me to wait because the Fate has something me with her but it still feels uncomfortable..
Thanks for your messages :o) Our friendship is not the problem, its the other way I feel. All the spells I can find are for 'forgetting' someone, but I don't want to forget him, I just want to stop all the other feelings.
