He or She whomever reads this thread please post your thoughts.
True Love. That is the topic today, and has been the topic in my dear friend's life for over 3 years since last month, and following to this day.
We are indeed a community of outcasts from society and the media, but how many of us even in this society believe in true love? A love that is not choice nor chance but law upon the heart. A love that brings ripples onto you like no other has or would. This is the True-Born Love of a man and woman, or man and man, or woman and woman.
My friend here, I shall keep his identity private, but he is one of the lucky people in the world to follow his gut and believe that there is a love worth following when he met a certain girl. But, they were in a world of today, a world of modern sin and less-modern miracles.
They were perfect for each other and everyone who saw them together said so, they were happy, truely and undeniably happy together. But then her family came into the picture.
Her family, from what I was told by his family, consisted of her sisters, no father, and, her mother. The evil mother, the mother who you could not believe. The kind of evil mother you'd see in old classic Disney movies where she would be like...GAH! She's damn evil. Worse than Cinderella's step-mother, worse than Malifacent, horrible!
She took away her daughter from this man. And the daughter said not to worry. So he waited, this strong man I know well waited 36 years for her to turn 18 so they could be together, he went to her home and knocked on her door to wish her happy birthday.
The mother answered the door, and the police came to the boy.
He was charged for being a stalker, and a restraining order was sent on him away from his girl, his LOVE.
He never saw her that day, but I remember the day well, when he came home, crying, and did not speak barely for 3 days, he was broken inside, hated god, and tried to kill himself, but was caught in the act and fell and hit his head on the bathroom counter. He was sent to the hospital and after a while became somewhat more normal now. He said he wont try to kill himself anymore, because thats what the devil wants and its a temptation he wont fall into.
But he is still a hurt man, his love, from what we know of her, is now possessed by a demon in her body, telling her what to do and tempting her away from him. He sits bored all day long nowdays at home, while she goes out and socializes with friends and boyfriends. When his sister sees her at school she says she looks unhappy, but hides behind a fake smile. She looks physically frail, as if she doesn't eat much to try and be skinny.
Me and him, we talk and I tell him he is in a trail, a challenge god puts on all true loves. He's strong, if the side's were switched he'd jog over to her house at 18.
Now then I ask you, what do u think'll happen next? If you don't believe me of what I have said ask me any question. This problem has taken a trial on all of his family and me certainly, and I barely know the girl but I know the man and I know he souly loves her.
All love has a purpose and all love is tested. Most do not withstand the fires of truth. Some fall in love for the wrong reasons and it doesn't work out. Some are drawn to people for reasons they do not understand. If it is meant to be it will always be no matter how many obsticles are thrown in the way. If it is not meant to be then it will not be and all things will go on. Yes I believe their is a thing such as true love a burning in the heart for a person. I myself have experienced it but mine was never meant to be. There are many who do not know of the power that love has in magick and all things. Never underestamate the strength of love.
Indeed, it has even been noted that the girl's mother is familiar with black magick, though it was vaugly mentioned what kind of things she practiced, something about dolls or demons. Either way she has lead demons into her home and her family, her daughter is possessed (again) by a demon and certainly has the physically characteristics of it.
I myself enjoy studying angels and demons and God's holy plans. Being possessed by a demon for 11 years since the age of 5 I know what the girl is going through, and being who she is, its a tough feeling to fight over for her love. But I believe love, true love can go past any obstacle.
As said in a sign I recieved from God, the boy had admitted he hates her actions, but still says he'll love her no matter what, through these challenges, he can go through any obstacle this trial of true love throws at him, for he himself cannot be truely seperated from his soulmate.
He says he feels weaker when he's not with her, and that is only to be suspected for I believe he's only half a soul, and she the other half. Together they are one angel under god seperated into two bodies to experience life.
I myself have found my soulmate, the boy's sister. And like him, I am going through a similar trial of love with her. And she herself is acting childish and stubborn, even saying she feel's 15 instead of 18 years old and wants to go out and socialize, be with friends, have fun, live a normal life! While I stay at home, and isolate myself from everyone besides the job I work.
But this isn't about me, my trial isn't nearly as tragic as the boy's, he waited 3 years for her to turn 18 and be with her but by then her mother already brain washed her and possessed her, making her think the opposite of him.
They did meet up together though, recently, and it only took a few minutes for her to break down her walls and cry in his arms saying "Yes, your right, I do like you". But we still cannot get her to fully break from her family. And now this boy has to go to court and face her! 20 years is the minimum for stalkerism he was charged against with her! I don't want that man to go to jail, for what his true love has been tricked into. Her mother, her mother would probably tell her exactly what to say to him in court. If she could only meet up with him, and be with him, drop the charges..
There's a flaw in this story...xD How could he have waited 36 years for someone to turn 18? That's O.o Chronologically impossible.
Aside form that, idk. I don't believe in absolute love, I don't believe in a love that is unbreakable. Some people are just made more for each other than, eh, others.
Well humans are social,some more than others.Sometimes to the extend of picking friends above lovers.People can also be brainwashed by parents,I've seen it with some people.I doubt she would be possessed,most likely bewitched instead.But sometimes things aren't ment to be and the strongest,most enduring and hated option is acceptance.Accept things that are out of our hands.
Oh, he has tried to accept and forget her, many times. But he can't, he knows they are for each other. But it is interesting to know what a third party thinks of this trial.
I believe there is true love... Or at least I know there is. I have my own experience with somewhat similar love. I know a girl who I love with all my heart body and soul and would give anything to be with her if I could. I over the short four years I have known her I have always loved her though I didn't realize what I would be getting myself into when I met her. I can remember it vividly. 6th grade. We were in gym together and one day we were all walking around the school track and suddenly she coughs my eye. Not the most beautiful or talented girl but I knew she was right for me. I passed her around the track maybe 4 times listening to her voice asking people about her when finally she approached me and began to playfully antagonize me. (She had noticed me days before and was even bugging my twin about me). This turned into a cat and mouse ketch me if you can friendship. Then a few weeks later we went skating and I got my first girlfriend. I was also her first boyfriend. Our relationship was only for a week due to her family. But that was ok because we weren't quite ready for each other yet.
I tried to forget but I couldn't. I found myself to afraid to really talk to her. And judging by get 7 boyfriends after me I'm guessing she tried to forget to. Time passed. Nearly a year before I finally talked to her again. It's been nearly 3 years since I finally started talking to her again and we have been together about 5 times in the 3 years. A few times she has tried to get a "home run" so to speak with me.(... It's funny. She wants to skip a few bases but i wont let her. bot untill i know she will truly be mine) Now we sit as awkward friends waiting for the other to make a move. I dare not for fear of a broken heart yet again. But I will wait for her to finally decide if she truly wants to be with me.
I believe that I truly love her though I don't fully know why.
Well, true love in my opinion is the reunion of a single soul, split into two bodies with half of the personality between the two. It would take time to discover who is the one for you, but usually there will be a dramatic fight, or a sort of (what I say) a trial. For the both to realize the true love between them they need to be able to do anything for each other and realize themselves the'll go through any obstacle to get to him/her.
As I explained in this thread my dear friend is going through said trial, if the roles were switched they'd be together already. But they are where they are and who they are for a reason. She needs to break out of her comfort zone, ignore her inner demons and possessing demon, ignore the fear of standing up to others and go to him. Its legal for her now since she's 18, she just needs to get over her fears and they could be together. But its hard, and the struggles to try and speed things up has only failed at every attempt between him and his family against her. But I only believe she'll break through somehow.
I believe that this is true love. They will find a way to be together. If not, may the world be exposed as a fraud. But this is true love and true love will never lose. It will devour everything in its way if it has to.
