Hi! I'm new here and am looking for some help.
My sister is going through a very hard time at work, and it's causing her so much stress she is physically ill. She is seeing her doctor and a therapist, and our parents and I are staying with her as much as possible.
I've had some success drawing away negativity & shielding, but it's always short-term. The longest has been about 3 days.
I'm very willing to continue, but it's exhausting. I don't think I can keep it up for long; it's been over a month already. Does anyone have any suggestions for longer results?
Thank you!
what exactly is wrong at work? if it's something like sales or no customers, you could try a honey jar spell to attract people to her place of work.
if you're wanting to calm her nerves, a tea with lavender would help. you could also look into a lavender dream pillow to help her sleep sounder. personally i hate lavender, if she does too there's other herbs that can be used instead. you could make her a sea salt bath with some essential oil from an herb/plant she likes, but again, lavender would be best. she needs time to herself away from the job, if she could somehow take a week off she should do that. if she can't, you should all look into finding her a new job, a job where you're not happy is dangerous, as you can see from your sister.
Her doctor has already taken her out of work for 3 full weeks & she didn't have much improvement. The issue is anxiety & panic attacks due to one of her supervisors. She has put in for new jobs, willing to take a cut, but can't afford to quit without a plan.
I have used lavender as it's one of her favorites & very useful. It only seems to help for a few hours. What I had the most success with is using calming & cheering oils & incense myself while focused on her situation. To direct the results to her, I put a gift from her on a mirror beside me.
Re: Need some suggestions please! By: alessandros (delete post)
Post # 4 Oct 07, 2012
Depends on how serious you want to be. I would suggest seeing if she's willing to practice some meditation techniques. I used to have a similer issue when I first started gigging it's amazing what a quick center and ground will do to calm down. Perhaps work on some of these practices with her maybe even walk her through how to ground the negative energy. You could embue a necklace or ring with a calming spell for her to wear. You could even do a coercion on her so that when she begins to panic your spell forces her to stop a second and calm
Thank you for all of your responses! Just a quick update: while my sister is not completely over her problems, she is doing much better. She has been back at work for 2 full weeks now. She is still staying with our parents, but managing to deal with the stress and at least stick it out until something else comes along.
I made her something for her office that I'm calling a "Witch Wreath". Very much like a dream catcher, but for daytime. I'm going to post my instructions in the spellbook for reference.
Thank you again! I know your thoughts were very helpful in this situation.
i do know a light hex that floods the aura with positive energy would you like me to send that healing hex to your sister for it will demolish all the negative energy in her energy field.
Not right now, but thank you! She wouldn't be comfortable with it, and I'd like to respect that. She is doing MUCH better now, and I'm sure that having wonderful people on SoM thinking of her helps.
