I have been thinking of this saying since when i was a lil child and until now. This saying is so meaning to me. Many people says "DONT JUDGED A BOOK BY ITS COVER" or "DONT JUDGED A PERSON BY ITS APPEARANCE" but sadly they dont know the meaning of this or they do but they dont want to. This saying is always applied to a young lady, whenever or wherever she go. People always compared her to others that makes her fell conscious about her self. They always said " Hey lady, why dont you follow him/her, she/he is a good model." Others says "You're hopeless, you have no space in this world". And the worst was "hey lady, why dont u change ur life, ur life is such a dirt, it's sucks!!".And do u know wat did she do?She just smiled to them and walk away with tears in her eyes. She even heard others whispering at her back. Even her relatives compared her to her lil sister. One time she asked her self, "Do my family really loves me?"."What is the purpose of my life being here?" That's y she always prefer her self alone than to chitchat with others cause she's afraid it wil happen again. One day, she asked her mother, "Mama, y do ppl always compared me to others?". " I have my own life, I have my own time and I hav my own "COVER". Her mama just laughed at her.Sometimes ppl defined her a happy person because she's always smiling when they r there.But they dont know she's always crying like a cry baby that want love from her family. Yes, she loves her family more than her life. That's y she's always smiling even her heart is bleeding. They dont know that their daughter is bleeding in and out. Hunger for love, thirsty for care. Sometimes she thought that the only solution of her problem is to commit suicide. She tried it so many times but conscience always telling her about her past. The cheerful one, the happy one and the lovable one. But now the hated one. She's tired of her life, tired of being compared to others. And tired teaching them the meaning of the saying. All she want is to love her, understand her, and stop comparing her to others. And that thing they cant even give to her.
And she asked her self once more. "Do they really know the meaning of the saying?".
Look Frey you first need to decide on the tense. It is Judge a book, not judged. Judged is after the event. Also you are talking to folk the world over. Text language ain't in everyone's vocabulary.
I've been there where your heart is bleeding and you do nothing but smile while the world carried on around you, most of us have. You have to learn to speak out when someone is upsetting you or saying something unrequired . If they are judging a book by its cover and telling you no to judge then you should point it out. Go to your family and say all I want is a little attention a little love and some time for you to talk with me as me.
I stood up once and they sat back and realised I was right. They were having a go at me for spending money that I had earnt from my own job, on a taxi as I didn't want hassle with being picked up. I pointed a few things out my father disagreed, my mother realised and told him to shut up. Things changed after that. Basically before all this, I was the one that wasn't able to do anything, as the family didn't know how to live and cope with me having a life and doing normal things. I called for the taxi as I new my bf at the time would moan and my father would do nothing but bitch about me asking for a lift. However I was never allowed to catch a bus or train I had to have a lift (I was 18 and they were still at it) so I pointed out a few home truths. After that it stopped.
