My husbands family is drug addicts and alcaholics. They are very vindictive and always cause problems in my marriage. They don't like me becuase they know I block them from using him. They have a hold on him. His very soft when it comes to his family and always oversees their nastyness. I know they hurt him with their attitudes and lifestyles. They have no mercy and don't feel ashamed for their behaviour. What can I do so that he can stop feelling sorry for people that don't deserve it and to keep this people out of our lifes. I tried the freezing out spell but then they get their friends to cause the problems.
Oh my, this is quite a problem everywhere. Sorry to hear its causing you grief. I had to end a friendship over drugs. Just don't want them in my life.
Its hard when a family is involved. Are you two old enough to strike out on your own? I mean get away from the parents so he can see what a good life is. Love will always be there for family, but you don't have to live close enough to be constantly hurt by them. Not sure what kind of magick is good for you here. Maybe a day trip to somewhere in nature so you both can get away and enjoy what is around you. Connecting back with nature is calming, and can open your minds to new possibilities. Meanwhile, keep up with positive energy, and that includes some of mine to you. May you find the answer. BB
I strongly feel you on this horrible matter. Unfortunately there is no spell that will help you out on this. addiction is a different thing all together - your husband must come to the realization that certain things must be done - positive attitude and show your husband differences between families with drugs and without - if you surround your husband with people of success with no drugs he will realize what needs to be done about his family good luck BB my thoughts will always be with you love
You can only help yourself when it comes to other peoples addiction. When people are addicted, they are so absorbed within themselves to the point of ignoring people's needs as well as their own. If you can't help them, the best way you can do it is to help yourself and make sure that you and your husband talk about not seeing them again.
Then do a freezer spell on their friemdr too and see how that goes. Dont give up. When you use magic instead of obvious defense and shield yourself when you have to deal with them and your intent is true and you remember to say "with harm to none so mote it be" at spells end to keep your motives true, then you will succeed. Trust me. This is all i can say about it being bound by annonymity. Good will alwayz win out over evil in the end.
Have you tried sending out a positive light toward the family members in general? In other words, cast a prayer to the Goddess so they can receive her blessings... surround them in light instead of the darkness they are in. Of course, there are those that will never accept this positive influx of energy, but you are upholding your duty to harm none and help when you can.
Just remember one thing... as much as you might despise them, your first goal should be to help them.
You can try a spell to protect your husband from the negative energy these people put off. However, if the energy is too strong, then the spell will fail.
The next thing you might try is a medicine bag. If you craft one with Birch for Protection and purification, Cinnamon for spirituality and healing, Crushed Agate to balance the auras and to impart strength, and Echinaecha to strengthen the charm, then you have a charm that can take in a good deal of negative energy and be replaced each day. It wont help his family, per se, but it will help your husband deal with them in a mature and responsible manner.
Sorry to hear about your story. I would suggest honey jars to sweeten his family towards you or protection and defense spells to keep them away from you and your home.
