My idea I came up with after hearing the ghost hunter/evp people on a radio show talking about the cemetery would be a higher concentration of spirits, makes sense. I felt the idea of going into a cemetery and calling out to the spirits or one to follow me and to help me out and for helping me in return if my heart sees it be okay I would return the favor.
What your asking seems very unnecessary. You already have guardians by your side waiting to assist you in any way you need be. If you want help from the higher realms, all you need do is ask and follow the guidance that follows. It may come in any form, and i mean ANY. It may be a passing thought or a sign on the road or something someone says or anything (you'll know when it comes), but as long as you stay open to their messages and take the opportunities they present you with, then you should not be having any form of trouble beyond your means of dealing with. You will need to put in the work and effort to change your reality as with alignment to your highest self (which is the deepest part of you which actually knows what you truly seek from this world and from any given moment). Your reality is naturally being warped towards what your highest self is seeking and resistance to this part of yourself can also cause many many troubles. As you start to reach into further alignment with the deepest parts of yourself, you'll notice everything falling into place as need be and you wont need to seek out any of these false signs or false conceptions of how to obtain the help you need. If you need help getting in touch with your guardians, there are plenty of guided mediation videos on youtube that can help you out. You should try for your animal guides and your guardian angels first. Those are some good ones to start out with. And remember this whenever trying to contact other spirits you aren't naturally aligned with, the spirits that will naturally be attracted to you will be the ones that are putting off similar frequencies that you are putting off or ones that have something to gain from the energy you are putting off. If you are putting off a low vibrational signal, then the lower spirits that will be attracted to you will be the ones who want to manipulate and use you. If you are putting off a high vibrational signal, then the lower spirits that will be attracted to you will be the ones that seek your assistance. Even if you think you are putting off high frequencies, often times people are mistaken because there are many deep dark seeds that go unrecognized and ones that haven't emerged to the conscious plate yet. Any form of natural fear or natural tendency you may consider "negative" would be examples of these dark seeds coming to the surface. When you enter into a high vibrational state, you are able to literally feel and see the world around you ascending as-well. The world around you is existing on the same vibrational state that you exist on, so just keep that in mind when you need a reference.
Thanks for that great reply. I have to say, I consider myself an extremely open being with all things and I am not exactly sure if I am high or low vibrational. I have no real fears of this type of thing or virtually anything for that matter. I lack a real, extreme excitement in my life, meaning it takes stuff that someone would think astonishing just to merit something regular to me, if that makes sense. Therefore if I was to have any type of spirits latch onto me I would probably see that as an exciting thing as I have never had any encounters with anything of the sort. And for the guardians you spoke of, I am not sure of their presence, where they are and all that. My intent of the cemetery was to get a spirit's help kind of in a way of the Intranquil Spell as I need someone fully back into my life. Today there was just some, slight progress by way of that. Not exactly a good thing came of it yet. There was a little communication, again, not good, not good results, but it was something and all I have is faith and hope.
For a matter like that, i would highly recommend against use of any spells or assistance from any spirit you are not naturally aligned with. The universe often works in mysterious and unknown ways and trying to resist the natural flow can such strong levels can backfire very badly. Now i am not saying that this is what is happening in your case because there is no possible way for me to know about something like that, but i am saying that if getting back together with whomever is truly in your best interest, then your guardians will help you get back together with them. If it is not in your best interest, then they will lead you towards what is. This is why it is always best to first align yourself with them when learning how to work with the metaphysical worlds; they ALWAYS have your highest interest in mind and heart, unlike some other spirits your may encounter.
The presence of your guardians is a good way of learning to connect to the spiritual realms properly and safely. Learning how to connect to these realms is learning how to use your senses beyond the 5 senses we are told about through mainstream culture. Again, the guided meditation videos on youtube can help greatly for establishing a base connection and learning how to recognize your guardians presence. Often time, their guidance will come through intuition or strong gut feelings because this is the way most people are open to their help since humans are taught away from these sorts of traits and are brought up to be diminished in these areas. Your guardians will communicate with you in whatever way you are naturally most comfortable communicating in. When they communicate, you will get a feeling and learning to recognize these different feelings will help you further establish deeper connections with them. If you are trying to learn astral projection or other forms of going to different realms, then that is a different story entirely. If you are just looking for some help from the higher realms, then go with the spirits you are naturally aligned with first and create a strong connection with them so you can allow them to help you out when trying to branch out further. These things will take time. When learning how to use a new sense, it is pretty much starting from scratch again like you did when you were a baby. When a baby is born, images are blurry and out of focus. Babies have to learn to see until we are capable of seeing as we do today. Same thing applies when learning any other sense so it is a good thing to keep that in mind while learning about these things.
Angel numbers are a good and easy way to start. They are just repeating numbers you see throughout the day. Anything you see repeating throughout your day that could be considered out of the "ordinary" is some form of communication from the higher realms. This site can help give you a general description of each number but to really know what each means, you will need to look within and learn how to use your inner knowing. Whenever you see an angel sign, it will be directly relating to whatever is currently at hand and you will often see them directly relating to whatever you may be thinking about right when you see the number.
http://sacredscribesangelnumbers.blogspot.com/p/index-numbers.html
This page will help you see auras. That is probably something that will interest you. Print out a copy of it in color and work on it, it's very simple.
http://www.wingmakers.co.nz/How_To_See_And_Read_The_Aura.html
Actually where I come from some people take to care a neglected tomb (I mean someone with no relatives to visit him/her or a too old tomb without the name on it simply because the time has erased it) in order to obtain the sympathy of the deceased so s/he would tell them, in they dreams, numbers to play in the national lottery. I have never experienced this for myself, I just tell you that some lore on this subject exists.
