binding someone to you

hi i have a question, is it safe to bind someone to you in love? like your bf? this spell:

http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/love_spells/relationship_spells/10697/page.html

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Safe? That depends. This particular spell is a set up for some nasty effects, mainly obsession.

When you do a spell to make someone "agonize" if they aren't thinking of you, you are specifically causing them to be obsessed. Now while that sounds all fine and good, obsession can lead to some very dangerous situations, including a person to have a "if I can't have you, no one will" mentality.

I am all for love spells, but binding someone to you is like caging them. You aren't allowing them to find happiness without you, you aren't allowing them to be who they really are. Usually, people look at that and say "Well that's ok. I love this person and I always will". Fact is...it really doesn't work out that way most times.

So let's say, 4 years down the line you no longer care for this person (it's very possible). You now want out of this situation, but you've tied the person to you so that they can't function or get away from you. You are their everything, whether or not you want them to be anymore.

And let's be honest, if it was a happy wonderful relationship that is supposed to withstand the tests of time..there really wouldn't be the need to bind them.

true I get what you are saying. but is their a way to unbind them if you use this? and are there safer spells to use in the case of love?

The best thing as far as love spells go..Write a spell to bring your true love/soul mate to you. If you want to "Force" any one person to be in love with you I will tell you this..It will Not be True Love it will be very fake. You will never know if this person is with you because they love you or because you did some spell to force them to you. It will end badly or it will flat out back fire and not ever happen.

This kind of thing needs to come with a very strong warning: Be careful what you wish for.

My exhusband's new lady did something to bind him to her. They stayed together for 20 years and then he left her for someone else and left her in financial problems. These kinds of spells always end badly because we see things from the physical so it's difficult to see things from a higher prospective.

Here is the way I would guage such an issue. If I could stand before Jesus, Shiva, etc. and ask for such a request then go ahead, but know you are binding yourself to him, as well. Such binding could even follow you to the next lifetime. Why would you choose to go into your next life with more baggage?

A better way to look at it might be to see the planet as a big sandbox, like kids play in. When you get tired of a playmate just see them as moving on to another area of the sandbox. We don't have to play together forever because it's a huge sandbox. But imagine if you got stuck with someone and had to play with them forever. That's the problem with such spells. It complicates your karma and gets you stuck with them-much more than them being stuck with you. But do you really want someone to be 'stuck' with you?

This just sounds like all kinds of bad news. I'll agree with the previous posts and root for a spell to being your true love to you, that is, if you're bent on summoning love into your life and just can't wait for it to happen naturally. Binding someone to you usually ends in obsession and can also have some nasty empathy side affects. I would not recommend this course of action... ever.

Hey, newbie here, let me know if you have any luck with this spell I'm looking for pretty much the same thing, thanks

Nobody else mentioned it because the fact is that this is a bad idea and could backfire, but i think people are more worried about the moral implications of basically enslaving someone(might sound like abit of an exageration).

But yes there is always a way to unbind something that was bound. If you find a book of magic that goes into the details of how this magic works within a system of magic, rather then just finding random spells on the internet, you'll get a better understanding of what to do.

I don't recommend doing this though. I would start experimenting with just basic love/attraction spells. I'd like to say though that from my understanding magic works best when you've exhausted options you can do physically/manually, and im thinking there is still alot you could probably do to keep your BF's attention, just my opinion only.