I have been practicing magic spells for over three years now. But, I had been keeping it from my parents. Last night, my mom went into my room, and saw all of my magic supplies; my wand, ritual robe, candles, and now I feel as if.. I don't know, a part of my life that I was happy hiding, has just been exposed. What should I do?
just be who u r and if she cant accept that then be who she wants u to b in front of everyone...
but in your privacy of your own room b who u r and practice all your spells!!
love balletchic
covens council member
I think you might benefit being a little less materialistic. I mean, in magic as with anything else I guess material is powerful... you might feel powerful with all those bells and whistles, but, magic isn't a wand. It isn't a robe, or a candle. It's you, your mind and spirit.
At least that's what I believe. Anyway, did she react very badly? Or was it more, "silly child, still believes in this stuff".
my mom did she is thinking about bloking this website from my computer and i have been practicing for nealy 2 years i have kept it secret my brother told her.
Thanks. I'll use the padlock idea, Lol. My mom sort of had that look on her face that said like "Oh, my god. I'm putting this kid in counselling." Thank you though.
The best advice I can give you is to talk to your parents about the ideas you have. Communication is the beat way to handle this. If she does want to send you to talk to someone else, then go and talk to that person. Remain calm at all times, blowing up or becoming too emotional will not help you, it will only hurt you. If you act like an adult about this people will take you more seriously.
this is kidna weird.. my parents didn't relaly care.. it took a while for them to udnerstnad i don't wnat to be cholitc and i don't wnat to do anytihng with it when i turend wiccan.. and the spells.. they got used to it. im a blaber mouth T_T
I told my mother(well she found out) when i was 16. She wasnt very happy with it to begin with and shouted at me for quite a few hours. Instead of shouting back, I simply explained what I did and said that there was nothing to worry about. She didnt talk to me for a few days....
Now i'm 25 and my mother even though she still thinks its a bit weird she has accepted this about me. My next hurdle is when i ammounce that me and my partner are having a handfasting. But i will meet that hurdle when I get to it.
Just be honest with her and dont get angry. Perhaps if she undertands it more she will accept it more.
