Honey Jar spell backfired

Hi all.....
I casted a honey jar sweeting spell on my boy friend as i noticed he had stopped expressing his feelings towards me. 5 days after i casted the spell, he broke up with me just because i asked him, y he had stooped expressing his love for me? Every since then i have tried everything possible but day by day, i only see the hatered increasing in his heart towards me. today it has come to a state where he hates to even hear my voice..... he does not trust me, though he has no incident or reason to give an explaination to all this. He says, thats the way he feels for me and he has no reason for all these feelings he has today towards me...
PLS HELP ME AND TELL ME HOW DO I BREAK THIS HONEY JAR SPELL AND MAKE HIM COME BACK TO ME AND PATCH UP WITH ME ON HIS OWN???
I WANT HIM BACK IN MY LIFE..... PLS HELP ME.......

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First off, you cast a spell that was not needed, he was already loving you. Your spell backfired because you used your power to force love, emotions are delicate and shouldn't be messed with, and in the end forced emotions turn on you.
Second, he does have a reason to be mad at you, you forced a spell on him. And now you must deal with the repercussions. But to get rid of the jar you need to cast it into the sea or a natural body of water.

Yea, no. It didn't backfire because of all that above mentioned.

What exactly was the intention? Was it to get him to express his feelings, or was it to sweeten him up to something specific?

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I am sorry I have different point of view...

Honey Jar spells and Voodoo/Hoodoo spells in general do not backfire

I mean, they just dont!

I am a newbie but I have done enough research on this topic.

I have a feeling it did not work for you and you started this spell when things were already getting worse, I am a girl in relationship and I totally understand!

When your guy stops talking, 99% chances are he wants a break up
Same as Sweater curse! You start knitting sweater when you know you need to show love else he will be gone..


So, sweetheart... work on jar if you wish or with all due respect let it go in some holy water
Ask your favourite God or Goddess to help you

Give it some time, you are not the only issue in his life, maybe he is worried about future!

I dont believe in Karma anymore but I do believe in balance of universe, to gain love you have to give love or some other energy from yourself, so put in some hard work... in love there is no short cut!

Agree with Vini~ I've never had a problem with honey jars and it's most likely your relationship was over but you were oblivious to it. I respect those that wish to believe in the law of 3 but for those of us that don't it would be really lovely if you could stop ramming your beliefs down our throats. It's getting very tedious and old.

Esk and vini hit the nail on the head lol. Sometimes there is nothing you can do to fix a relationship. If it has not grown to the point of hatred, take step back and look at what could be causing your issues. Most often we are blind to our own problems, especially in matters of love. Also while a honey jar spell works wonders at sweetening someones affections or disposition towards you, I feel that if the person closes themselves off to love or just people in general then it might not work. Some people are so stubborn and strong willed that nothing will get through to them. Keep faith and best of luck to you :) ~Angie

HI All,
1. I didnt hv a bad intension, i noticed he was slowly resisting from expressing his feeling and i wanted him to start expressing his feelings for me like earlier he did. so i did the honey jar spell.
2. I am dead sure it was the honey jar that back fired. Cause
- exactly 5 days after i did the honey jar spell he broke up for no reason.
- When i spoke to him to sought things out and patch up he has no faluts to pointout in me, he has no reasons or incidents to tell me when or why he stoped trusting me...all he says is, i just know that i dont trust u, u r capable of anything,bla bla bal....
3. every time i lit a candle on the jar to sweeten him up, i noticed he got more & more angry on me. Infact i noticed his haterede towards me, the neagtive feeling towards me has been increasing day by day
4. our relationship was going perfectly fine. we were planning to move in together and live together. it was just that he was slowly resisting himself from expressing his feelings for me, but i knew he loved me truly. i just wanted him to express it.
I am sure even now he has feelings for me, but as he spoke to me last night, I notice the negative feelings which r increasing day by day because of this spell, have been pushing the love he has for me.....

I ONLY REQUEST, CAN SOME ONE JUST HELP ME AND TELL ME HOW DO I BREAK THE NEGATIVE BAD EFFECT OF THIS HONEY JAR SELL?? HOW DO I BANISH THE BACKFIRED NEGATIVE FEELINGS HE HAS DEVELOPED AGAINST ME???
PLEASE GUIDE ME........
IF I HAVE TO DISPOSE THE HONEY JAR IN RUNNING WATER.... SHOULD I OPEN THE JAR AND DISPOSE?? SHALL I JUST OPEN THE JAR AND RUN IT UNDER THE TAP WATER AND BURN ALL THE THINGS IN THE JAR??

PLS HELP ME AND GUIDE ME...........

Dispose of it in running water and do an uncrossing spell to remove the effects of the spell on him.

You can also dispose of the contents of the jar by emptying them into the earth. If you wish you could do this at a cross roads. You could reuse the jar for something else as the power you've focused on it will still be present. Should you feel the need immerse yourself completely in an uncrossing bath containing salt, lemon juice and bay leaves. As you do this imaging all the negativity leaving your body. When you get out of the bath allow yourself to dry naturally.