Hi im nehal and im new here, I searched online a lot for somebody to help me through spells and magic but all are fake or will charge me and I don't have a credit card currently Im divorced woman and im unemployed now and all my friends are married and have babies and working and im the only one who feel so bad coz im home all the time doing nothing, i used to be so energetic and famous among my friends and relatives but now im so depressed coz i have nothing left and my family are ashamed from me coz they think that im a loser plz i need your help, i want to regain my life back and get back at the people
who made fun of me and took pleasure in my misery. i want to get married again and have kids and start my life allover again. what should I do???
me.
Open a daycare and babysit all your friends kids. If they are going to go back to work and let a babysitter raise their kids instead of waiting till they go to school or what not. Why not see what you are missing and keep it in the circle.
As for revenge, the best revenge is living well. You could break off contact with those that bring you down if they affect you so badly but you may find you still feel bad and really are alone by pushing them away. I recommend seeing a therapist or psychiatrist as you could have depression from physical problems. When we get overly upset we lose sleep and saritonin production slows down in brain. Saritonin does a lot for our bodies including feelings of happy / well being and energy. Getting that in check could help you. Blessings, David :-)
Must remember that "it will not always be like this", unless of course you drag this misery out of your closet everyday and try to wear it. So things did not work out? Many in this realm have endured and even flourished under those circumstances, so we are here to tell you...it is survivable AND often a catalyst to be our best selves. What is it that you hope to get from a spell? For me to start on that path, nothing was required but meditation (free but must practice) and prayer (ask for what you want and leave the request there). Once it was said "at the moment of commitment, the universe conspires to assist". One day at a time, or if you are really like me IMPATIENT as all get out, then five minutes at a time. It will get easier.
The thing you should do is not worry about the hard things in your life because there is nothing for you to benefit from being negative all the time. Plus revenge is digging two graves one for the enemy and one for you because revenge doesn't get you anywhere in life, it's just a way for you to start a war between minds. What I suggest for you is to chill out, stop putting stress on yourself, don't worry about anyone speaking nonsense about you, and take time into bettering yourself and strengthen your mind so you can take anything someone tries to throw at you head on. If you want to be married get a boyfriend and work it through till he proposes. After that you could discuss the topic of having kids with your true love. Afterwards you can smile and smile at those who have mocked you all those years and see them in awe of what you've become.
I can't say much that's not going to be repeated, so I'm just going to quote Avatar Aang from Avatar: the Last Airbender: "Revenge is like a two headed viper snake: as you watch your enemy go down, you are slowly poisoning yourself." So please be careful. And I agree that the best revenge is living well. If you just forget about the people who hurt you and just do your best to be happy, then if they truly want you to suffer hey themselves will suffer from the fact that you're not miserable. I hope things turn out well for you ^.^
